Im 21 and cannot come into a female vagina or come from a blowjob. I used to watch a lot of porn and would masterbate, but now I have no problem getting an erection, but actually coming is something i can no longer do. It is extremely frusterating, and every girl this happens with i never see again... Its a catastrophe. What is the solution to this? I can jack off in about 2 minutes if i really go at it watching porn, so i know it works. How can i get used to vaginal sex without an actual vagina. Or make myself ejaculate earlier and easier so i can control it. Too fast is better than not at all at this point.

I was thinking no masterbation, or cutting it down to once a week, with porn. Should i watch a bad porn movie, like maybe of someone i would never sleep with even though shes in the porn business?

Anyone else have this problem and what did u do to fix it. AND NO NOT SAY TALK TO THE GIRL ABOUT IT. that is a huge DLV and i need to fix this, not deal with it

please give me some responses

theres many thing that can stop you from coming during sex but here 2 i think may be effecting you

1. nerves ( i suggest you find a girl get comfortable having sex with her and after about one month you will be coming during sex also stop worrying about what shes thinking if shes enjoying herself or if she thinks your good or not lose these thought from your head and you will be fine )

2. alcohol ( this is a biggie for me soon as i touch alcohol im not coming that night on a good note it does mean i can go at it all night )

got to agree /\. Alcohol is a key roll for me sometimes depends what kind of alcohol for me and how much and also smoking (not cigarettes). Nerves can do it but usually not.

Honestly, you may want to speak to a doctor about this. A doctor would know much more about this than just about any PUA on this forum. For many guys, it is the exact opposite where they cannot control themselves. Sometimes it is a physical issue.

Like many people said though, it may be nerves or alcohol.


Good luck man.

remember that jerking off is a lot different than getting a blowjob or having sex. if you get too used to blowing ur load jerking off it'll be much much harder when its something different.

how often are you chocking ur chicken? I would suggest to keep it to a minimum that way you'll be way hornier when you do see her and getting excited will be way easier.

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