| been a dry few months, but I havent really had opportunity or time for anything.
thus far I have one lay (well, technically not a lay, but it was all i was/am after for the time being)
1. J:
met up with old friend from highschool, hung out, had some drinks with a group of friends. road home with her and managed to get to second base, and she went for my third (is that how you put that? lol...)
Spent about 5 hours in her bed fooling around until 7am, at which point i found out she lives with her mom and she didnt want to have any scenes caused by having a guy they never met walking out of her room, so i climbed out the window. rofl.
Things will probably progress with this one into a FB in the coming months. I've put it out there bluntly that I'm not interested in a relationship, and we continue to flirt, she continues to show interest.
2. A:
talking to this HB9 (asian. WOOT!) who is actually friends with J. She claims im in friendzone but is showing OBVIOUS signs of interest. we were talking for a few days, and before I could get anywhere she hardcore friendzoned me. I followed up with a casual 5-10 minute conversation for 2 days, followed by dropping her. 1 week later she began contacting me again, and is now officially ALL over me. its amazing what simply showing subtle hints that your not interested then dissapearing will do to a girl. wish i did that with my ex. lol
anyways, shes nice but i'm not sure if i like her personality. im playing the game in order to make my single life a little easier to deal with, and to eventually find my next relationship. A is a possible option for a relationship but I doubt it will last (nto a huge fan of her personality, shes super ditsy) Probably going to a movie with her this weekend and going for a kiss close.
3. C:
started talking to HB9 (another asian, how do i do this?) yesterday. was invited to her birthday party at a sushi bar with a friend of mine. was introduced, played alpha male and made sure to make plenty of eye contact early on. she wound up sitting directly across from me on the table, which ruined the closeness but gave me ample opportunity to present myself. made conversation very well, lots more eye contact etc. she was a bit busy with 20+ friends pulling her everywhere for pictures and whatnot, and I wasnt going to try and take over her birthday so I played it cool.
Contacted her on facebook, have had a pretty decent conversation with her. going to persue via facebook a few more days and try and hangout in the next week or two, probably in a group setting since we are still "strangers". she was deffenetly showing interest the other night.
Will probably aim for a #close via facebook in the coming days.
4: I
I is C's friend (best friend?) HB6, and not very attractive in the face for me (not ugly, just not my type, too mexican) met her the same night as I.
Didnt really give her much attention, but figured why not, so i did a little work. eye contact, conversation, jokes, etc etc. after contacting C on facebook, I persued me through it. I decided I'm going to keep things VERY distant with I unless i know C wont be working out. never hurts to have a backup amirite?
Not doing horrbily bad, but I need to accomplish more.
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