So I've been reading a bit about NLP, and was wondering if there are games to play that make slipping in anchors and stuff in more natural and less weird... for example. I like doing the cube, and last time I did it, I told her to keep eye contact, and let me hold her hands (passed it off as part of the trick for some easy kino ) But before I told her about imagining the room or the cube, I told her to think of a time and a place she was very happy, and squeezed her hand... and did this several times different ways throughout the cube, but afterwards realized squeezing her hand wasn't the best anchor, as it wasn't subtle enough to trigger... so any ideas on how else I can implement this or other good games to subtly introduce some NLP with lower risk of being caught?

Well, the cube is not exactly meant to elicit a state so you can't anchor it.

The cube is just a cold read.

You should try some story and add some patterning language in it. Somewhere in the story could be something like:

"It's like my friend was saying 'sometimes you realize that your happiness comes down to who you have in your life'. Me, I think when you think about this person (self-point) and imagine hanging out and having fun it's when you really feel the happiness growing. Can you think how wonderful would it be?" (touch your chin or something like that)

Now talk about something else and get her into a different state. Then touch your chin to fire the anchor.

I hope it helps.

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