Ok heres the situation.

About 6 months ago I got super fed up with my life. I couldn't talk to girls, so I made it a goal to get rejected 12 times so that I was forced to talk to girls. My first idea was to go to a strip club to get more comfortable around girls. I thaught it would be a good place to go because the girls are naked and actually flirt with you (obviously they aren't interested though). But even talking to strippers I froze.
Now, it's important to know that I didn't know about this game back then, so I saw a stripper I thaught was really cute, and looked about my age. She is a 6 or a 7. So I approched her and she asked me if I wanted a dance. I accepted (big mistake, I know that now). When she got done I said "You tried" and gave her money just to tease her, and walked out of VIP.

I decided a few days later to ask her out because I did need 12 rejections, so I went back up the following Saturday and just straight up approched her and told her I want to take her out (lame I know, but it was more to get over AA). She didn't say anything when I asked, and just got a sad look on her face, so I told her it was ok and walked away. Now, it gets really bad now because I approched her a third time and asked if she could at least tell me her name, and she did (I like her stage name a lot beter than her real name to be honest). When I asked for her name she had just gotten off stage and said she was really hot, so she was going to get a drink and come talk to me for a little bit. About an hour later she came over to see me, but I completely froze up, didn't know what to say, so she left.

When I got home I looked her up on FB, and she did tell me her real name, and we are the same age. Of course I didn't add her, and I do feel bad because it's kind of a dick move to look someone up like that.

Now that I discovered this game I have a lot more confidence.

So I'm sure your wondering what my question is by now.

I have a buddy who is turning 18, so we are going back with a small group next weekend. It's been about 3 months since I've been up there. I guess what I want to know if it's a good idea to maybe try to talk to her again, but this time showing no interest. Deep down inside I know that there is no way to pick up this girl, but I think I could probably practice on her.

I saw a video with Mystery where he says the best way to pick up a girl that a lot of guys want is to make eye contact and flip her off, then gesture for her to come to you. When she approches say "Do you know why you suck? Becuase I want to talk to you, but your surrouned by all those guys, you must think your Little Miss Popular."

Bad idea? Yes or No?

Thanks for reading, I know the post is long and annoying.

lets stay focused! this is important...

I don't know why you're so worried, especially if you want to fail.

I wouldn't suggest using canned material, but if you always freeze up, you might have to just to begin with. Eventually you should try make the transition from canned material to natural game. This will have an amazing impact on your whole social life.

Girls sense insecurities, so it doesn't matter what you say to them. If they see in your body language that you're nervous or not self-aware, then you're shit outta luck. Just keep talking to girls and you will improve.

thx for the tip... but its kind of hard to have an opener that isnt canned...

mayb i wont say "you know why you suck?" ill just tell her to sit or something

Well the context of the opener isn't bad. The issues I see with canned material are:

1) She can call you out on it. Eg "hey that's from that mystery guy. nice try". You can still recover, but it sure as hell isn't a good start

2) It becomes difficult to improve when you're not improvising. It's not a big deal if you open from canned material (it's great for overcoming AA) but you should try to at least transition into more of a natural state of mind once you've established conversation. This will improve with practice, trust me.

Situational openers are my personal favourite fyi. You can't get called out on it, it's probably something she's never heard, AND it improves your social skills.

ok thanks for the advice... i will try to think of something to open with that is origional