I have to say I'm not convinced by this online stuff, or maybe I'm doing it wrong.

It just seems that the balance is shifted too far in the favour of the girls. They wait for the messages, look at your profile and then decide whether to answer. I find it much harder to calibrate.

I mean are the blokes just sposed to send out thousands of prospective mails and see what bites?

lol


Seems pretty DLV

Man, my messages out always get responses. You just have to know how to work it the right way. I say something ridiculous, like some girl was talking about her perfect day so I made up a story about that day and how pirates came to be involved. I went a little further, and then she bit, wrote something back. Then I segued into normal conversation.

I've tried this with about 50 different people as tests and it's got at least an 85% response rate. Also, the way I write doesn't really show any DLV, because I make it clear in a non-threatening way that I want them to keep my interest. Seriously, it almost always works.

On the subject of DLV online, you're going to always technically be showing a DLV if you're sending the message. There's a point though where it doesn't matter and if you're a smart enough dude, you're going to find absolutely no problem overcoming it.

Think of it like a challenge for you. You're starting at a slight disadvantage.

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I would bet you are doing it wrong.
Isn't that basically what happens in real life? Girls waiting around for a guy to approach them and then deciding if they like him or not?
Thats what I do. Like real life, online is a numbers game. The more girls you approach/contact/message the higher the chance you will hook a girl.

First.... You HAVE to be different than all the rest...That means your profile too...There is plenty of help in that dept. on forums here.

Second...when a girl shows IOIs, its up to you to figure this out and act on it....Again....see the above comment....

Three...don't be a wuss and just do it...you miss 100% of the shots you don't take...nothing more needs to be said.

Best,

J-Dub

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