I have this friend who gave me one-itis.We started by going on dates but then eventually we were just friends. Everytime i backed off tried to cut contact, she would call me an ass or send messages that she missed me and all. For some reason she speaks very highly of me to her friends and think i am very cool, promiscous and date a lot of hot chics. So off-late she's been recriprative to my asking her on dates and compained a couple of times tat I should not freak out when she goes out on dates with other guys as I never take her out. What she means by that is, i make her pay everytime we get drinks or something. So yesterday she again said that' dont complain if i get a boyfriend,b/c you are either tired or you never take on a dinner date, and if we ever go we always split the bill".
Now i am a little confused as I am not sure if she wants a free meal or does she really wants to date me. I have also tried to k-close her a few times, but she says she doesn't like PDA, so only when we get drinks i am able to do it.
Please suggest

If you really do like her, invite her to your place so you can be alone. Then make your move. Don't pay for shit until you know she's being serious.

I agree with ataraxia.. ask her if she wants to have a movie date or something, and watch movies at your place

What she really is saying hey i want you to be my boyfirend and fuck me and have a relationship with me but i need you to show that you care a bit by giving me value and paying for me to eat is a good way since everytime we go out i pay for you because i like you and i want you but you dnt reciprocate the action so u either cheap or dnt want me and ure going to lose the chance u ahve with me if you dnt correct this behavior soon

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OK now we went out again and made out for the first time in a bar after which she left. But we had a male friend along with us, who told me that I should forget her as she is not into me and that she is just using me. So I got pissed and sent her a couple of nasty texts. She replied saying ' wtf we jsut made out and ur still acting liek this, for the first time ever it feels like we are dating and then you act all bi-polar, stop being dramatic I can't handle this'. I apologized and she said it was okay.
So now i am not sure where we stand. B/c I feel like I have to behave differently. I even sent her a txt asking if she wanted to meet up tonite but in total vain.
SO i am like has she blown me off or is she just playing games.