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PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 8:52 pm 
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Ok... so here's a few things... kinda hungover so really not in the typing mood hahaha but ima try.

1. Just do what you want to do. You want to walk up to an HB? Do it... what do you have to lose? I'd feel like a bigger tool if i let the hottest babe at a party walk out the door without me saying a single word to her than if I walked up to her and got denied... Im sure she had already denied multiple men, you're not alone.

2. If youre having problems approaching women... just approach women all the time randomly even if youre not going to spit game. I dunno if i can really explain this. Umm... I'll go to malls etc and just walk up to groups of women and talk. I don't try to spit game or anything like that, I just ask a random question get them to laugh a little and walk away. It builds confidence. Don't say anything about their beauty or that you want to get with them, just talk. It's fun and it does wonders to your confidence. I guess i'm saying if you ever plan on being able to approach random women and play the game... you're going to have to learn to just approach random women first. Without the game.

hope it helps?? hahaha


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:29 pm 
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Yeah, kind of a noob mission.
Just walk around the mall and smile at girls. Maybe throw in a wave if you're confident.
And if you really gather up the nerve, you can even walk up to them and begin a conversation with a canned opener. C&B and it's no big deal, because there are plenty of other targets saturating the place.
As I have read before, think of it like a video game... you can always try again and again.


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 8:05 pm 
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Good post man. I agree completly, it's alot better to try and fail, then to not try at all. I think alot of the game is about confidence and body language and the more pratice the better you will get.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 4:47 am 
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Solid post, definitely agree with it. Even if you aren't planning on gaming a girl, if you see a girl that looks interesting talk to her for a couple sentences. You can always choose to drop it or continue. But you won't even have the option if you don't initiate some sort of contact.


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