So this girl i have been talking to over a period of the last two months is easily a HB8. First time i took her out we just kinda had conversation it was pretty stimulating, anyway i didnt close with a kiss, not till the 3rd time i took her out. We have been pretty consistant in talking, she texts me alot and talks to me. One thing I have noticed is she breaks eye contact alot so it makes it difficult to grasp her complete attention. I feel like she is distracted alot, so any suggestions to fix that would be cool.

Anyway, we got together lastnight and she came over and we grabbed some food and watched a movie i was completely confident going into this knowing by the end of the night id have her in the sack. Didnt fly the way i had hoped too. Ended up leaving after the movie and i lost quite a bit of confidence, she seemed sort of disconnected disengaged. Later lastnight I talked to her about it, she said she did like me and i guess stuff was on her mind? She told me she likes when guys take control, i am sorta agressive but i need tips on how to become more agressive, im looking to lay her within the next week or so. She claims she is sexually frustrated so i can work that to my advantage.

Any tips or suggestions guys would be awesome. Like i said I am a noob to this stuff, still trying to figure out my game and become that alpha male haha


Edit: I am also trying to find some good negs to throw in there, she knows she looks good and she is confident i need to knock her down a peg and make her try to impress me. And i know you guys can help haha

First let me start off be sayin be in control, if you wanna be in control act like your in control... Ask her out for lunch or dinner whatever you like, your in control so you pick the place you two are going to head to, don't ask her where she would like to go just pick a place if she dosen't like it she will let you know don't worrie. Since its spring time maybe try to pick an outdoor patio after you guys eat tell her you have another idea for dessert, take a walk to the ice cream place grab some ice cream and start taken a walk to the park or river, I'm sure your downtown area must have an outdoor patio, a place to get ice cream, & a park. After you guys hangout for abit shes pretty comfortable with you so start to head back to her or your place whatever works for you. Since your going to play a movie or something and remember if she quotes " what do you wanna do" Please dont say "I don't know" or " what do you think we should do" Be in control say we should watch a movie go though the dvd collection or whatever it is and pick the movie, your in control. I can't tell you step by step but pretty much give her a back massage and once you can do a bunch of things 1) get her to laydown fully 2) move to the bedroom to get her whole back 3) keep doing your thing start to smell her neck and tell her she smells good and start to kiss her on the neck if you don't get rejected from kissin her on the neck and smellin her neck then your golden

Hope this helps you

Cheers Mike

Thanks man, good to get a reply, i am glad i got some people on here willing to give me pointers. I mean i suppose not all of this stuff comes naturally. Im pretty confident with this girl, i just need to work my game a little better. But thanks man

Practice is key, and you shall learn what works and what isn't gonna work, also when you massage her please do it for alteast 5-10mins or so don't rush right into it. The Key to the whole back massage is to get her comfortable. Thats the whole key is to get her more comfortable with you touching her etc...

Good Luck!!

Cheers Mike

Haha deffinitely man, i wish i would have known of this forum forever ago. Its so legit, ill make sure to keep you posted on what happens haha.