I went out sarging the other night and dound my seduction matereal getting in the way of actually pulling a girl! I was a little out of my head but that's a different story. Sarging was killing my natural game because I was trying to pick up a girl in ways I did not fully understand.

I felt very insencere and sleazy. Like many people on here though I am past the point of no return. Here's my journal entry on the subject of it:

September 25th.
Last night I was hanging with my room-mates. We were standing around in a car park talking about nothing important; all in all it was pretty ordinary. Yet I could not get my mind off Nicole, for some reason all my attention in one way or another connected with her. I am not particularly attracted to her and don’t have a crush but COULD NOT GET HER OUT OF MY HEAD! She wasn’t even looking particularly sexy but still my attention was square on her head.

And then it was clear as fucking day. I am attracted to women because I am a man and it is human nature. Without a natural attraction always present we would not mate and procreate. That is incredibly important, I’m not saying I feel out of place wielding this gigantic lust but sometimes it seems unclear. Not anymore! Fucking is the most basic thing in the world and everybody wants it! Most of the time the reason is, ‘just because they want it...’ That’s as simple as I can put it.

The Seduction stuff I have been reading tells me this over and over yet it comes off in-cognitive by me as I put it on like an act. I try and pick up chicks exclusively with some borrowed ideas and ideals. I have never thought of it like this before. Not on my own. The literature has been helping and yesterday I realised that I could internalise things like the Pickup tools, mainly cocky + funny.

If I am going to do this I need to do it from a natural game perspective or it will not bring me what I want. After realising this I do not have to think getting girls takes any real skill, all I have to do is move at the right pace and say the right thing. I am good looking and fucking a lot more competent than a lot of people out there dating hot as girls.

I am looking forward to reaping the soft, wet benefits.

A.

Anybody agree? What is all this TRULY about anyway?

Well first off it looks like you got a touch of one-itis. GFTOW.

As for the stuff about feeling unnatural. Your looking at it wrong.
What the PUA tools provide is a proper skeleton for conveying the real you. Every bAFC, AFC, Natural, and PUA projects themselves when meeting women.
The problem with those who aren't successfull is that they project themselves with:
- Too Much: an undesirable, overly needy, over aggressive, or over interested manner
- Not Enough: by ignoring women completely, never approaching women, not conveying interest in women, by "respecting" women too much, or just not taking "the next step"
- Bad Confidence: Their happy but degrade themselves for others amusement (become a clown), their "too willing" to help, they try to buy affection, The tell every single thing about themselves good and bad, or the try to "impress" women by insulting them thinking they'll respect their faux-confidence.

I can say I've done everyone of the above in my life. But what the skills of PUA gave me were the tools of socially showing people my good traits while downplaying bad things I've done in my life(or omitting them).
Ultimately, every PUA develops a 'game' where they don't rely on "canned material" as its only for beginners and develop the ability to draw from people material to use on the spot or influence them to ask more about a PUA's self.

You've got to ReFrame your perspective. PUA isn't about creating an alter ego. It's about enhancing your current one into the 'Ideal You'.