| talk to as many women as you can, young, old, fat, ugly, whatever, it doesn't matter.... in the beginning its not important if you get the number or not, its getting over the anxiety of fear or rejection, we're all hardwired to fear rejection b/c back in the day, as Mystery says, if we approached the wrong girl we may be killed or castrated... All women are programmed the same and typically react the same, you're goal is to build your social knowledge and awareness and in doing so you will gain that confidence... After you're able to open a set on a HB10... oh you said you don't know the acronyms, HB10 is a bad ass chick, a dimepiece. Once you can approach them you can approach anyone. Read up on building comfort, how to be non-threatening, approaches and building rapport... Have something interesting you wanna talk about or a good story and go with it. A wingman is gonna make it twice as easy b/c now you only have to talk about half as much on opening a set and should be easier with a wing. Think of it this way, everyone gets show down, some more than others, but each time you fail is one less girl to to succeed with one, its a numbers game, always has been and always will be. Have a goal of getting 3,4,5 numbers a night and go open sets till you meet that goal and don't give up, this game is like chess, it will never be mastered... If you're still lacking in confidence start with chicks you don't find that hot and work your way up.
oh go on youtube and type in PUA or Mystery PUA and watch all the videos... pretty much all of it is good shit, they'll have pickup analysis with actual footage, seminar footage and actual hidden cam footage of pickups. Lots of good shit to learn on there.
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