| Me and a friend are leaving the show we were to go to a party. My friend asks me; "hey we should make some friends to night!"
So there I am, the first person I see; a girl HB 7, with headphones on.
Me: (making signs for her to take her headphones off) Hey wanna be my friend!
Her: euhh I don't really know what to answer...
Me: what's on your Ipod playin? shhh I bet its funk.
Her: *smile* nah punk
Me: oh I used to listen to this and nanananannanananaa
Then my friend comes and I'm like hey "my friend's name" let me introduce you to kate, my new girlfriend.
Anyways, she didn't tell me what her name was, but I guess it the first time (she a look on her face, unbelieveble)
Then she said hey I'm going to this club u wanna come, but we had other plans.
I could totally #-close, or K-close for sure.
How did this opener worked (hey wanna be my friend)?
1- A bright Huge Fucking Smile!
2- Don't give anyshit
At first this was a game we played with my friends, there was no "pick-up" or whatever. It was about talking to girls and have fun with it, regardless of the outcome.
One thing I've notice when you care too much about a girl, your game is fucked! When you dont't give a shit, there's no stress, no fear of fucking up. You are in the right state to be your best self.
3- Lead the frame
This is your game, you say whatever you want to say! Well, don't be an asshole too, let the girl speak and listen to her (this is SO important if you want smth more that quick&easy sex)
Noticed when she ask me: "I dont know what to answer". I didn't feel answering this question and really wanted to know what kind of music she was listening to. And the convo continued.
4- Body languages
I worked on this, and honestly I feel better and more comfortable in any situation.
That's how I open every sets now, canned materials (and any other openers) are bullshit if you don't know how to say them.
Peace.
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