does this shit even work? i went on the event twice and maybe i put yes on something like 10 girls... not a single one of them put yes back?

why is it so damn hard to make speed dating work? i asked deep rapport questions and stuff

I have never been to a speed date, but why would it not be possible to get a positive response ? If out of 10 women nobody crossed you, you must have done mistakes. It is not only necessary to ask deep report questions. I have no experience in speed dating but my guess is that everyone participating in speed dating asks deep report questions. What else are you gonna talk about in 10 minutes, right ? Probably the women asked you deep report questions too. In order to be picked, you have to be different from the other 9 men. It is up to you to find a way to differentiate you from the others.

i tried to use C/F and no serious materia but that gave no results iether... it must be something in my body language the girls dislike? every time i try something new on speed dating but no luck so far...dude i had high energy and talked to all guys in the room and even made friends why are the girls putting no on me? makes no sense since i got lots IOIS... maybe im too smooth so they think im faking it? thats the only logical explanation i have..

Were the girls hot or just normal looking or even ugly ? I don't expect girls to be very good looking in a speed dating event. C/F is kind of playfully negging that is usually applied to very attractive girls to lower their value. So maybe that is the problem. If you neg a girl with lack of confidence she might think that she is not worthy to be with you and that you are not going to consider her anyway because you clearly are too high value compared to her. So if plan A doesn't work, go to plan B. Stop the C/F because it is clearly not working well. Try to be less smooth and more honest but at the same time show you are not a push over because push overs are not attractive. I think you are using night game material but I think for speed dating you should use daygame material. So have a normal talk, try to be friendly and smile a lot. Ask her genuine questions about her life and try to show her that you are really interested in her as a person. Try to give her a little compliment and at the end try to make her qualify to you. This is a typical daygame approach. I think for speed dating this is better than the C/F.

Never done speed dating but I always thought that I would be great. Opener check, timelimit check, just to game...

How does it work anyway?

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

trust me while it may sound great you also have to deal with the fact that she is talking to 15 other guys that night..just pray they are not more intresting than you are.

anyway it works like this ..15 girls and 5-6 minutes each with every girl... thats how the event was for me anyway

the level of girls was mixed out of the 15 girls maybe 6 of them where really attractive.. there was this girl that was really awful. she could not reply to any question and basically looked disintrested in every single guy that night. i tried to neg/CF but she continued to behave that way. i asked why she was like that and she gave me no reply and told me good luck

the only thing that can work in speed dating is complete ridiculousness


like fucking fantasy land


though it can be good for the imagination...adopt a new over the top persona for every girl

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I thought speed dating was for losers so... Obviously thats not gonna be a problem.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn