I have no problem getting the number close. The problem arises with me setting up a day 2. My target is either busy, or we make tentative plans that fall through. How can I alter this situation? I understand that not 100% of the girls that you number close will lead to anything else but I want to increase the number that do. Please help...

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I would say make sure from the beginning you know what you want, and she knows what you want too. If a girl is interested and you ask her when she is free, she will make time to be free. If she is always too busy then she isn't interested. Move on. It doesn't matter what you tell her you want to do. Sky diving, Starbucks. Its all the same, if she is interested she will make time. Number closes are not as important as you may think they are. Ask yourself under what premise was the number given. Were you honest in your intentions or did you beat around the bush. Because if you want sex and she knows that then you wont need dinner or a movie, you can go straight back to your place for desert.

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