Ok well i don't post often because i don't need to... Im a good Pua, that is good at pulling one nighters and im not usually interested in a 2nd date. and if i want to know anything i can usually search and find the answer without asking the same old boring questions i see on her everyday that get half answered.

But anyway heres where it's changed 3 weeks ago i picked up this hotty at my local the usual ( Great story but not now ) Took her home F-closed and watever but what i realised the next day is that she was a really cool chick one that i'd like to get to know better so we have a mini date thing all was good.

I foundout she's from my town but lives about 3 hours away doing uni.. So i go down there to see some
" freinds " haha and hang out with her most of the weekend F-Closes not that i cared she was a cool chick to hang around with. Now the thing i realised the whole time is she's a bit quiet and on the day i was going home real quiet Although she told me she was just feeling a bit sick.

Anyway she's tells coming back home for the weekend with a freind so i said we should hang out and she agreed. I spoke to her on chat a bit the other day and then nothing yesterday so i don't seem to keen and probly won't tonight and im kind of waiting to see if she'll msg me to see if she's keen.

She's coming here tommorow and i'll msg her then and im probly going to try and date her properly like going out haha which is new to me....im known around town as a one night stand guy. Im not sure if she feels the same or is just having fun, Im not sure if she's coming up to see as a main reason it's hard to tell how she feels about it all... I just don't know if she would be keen for a relationship or how she feels and it's confusing me i can usually figure everything out reading people is what i do best!!!
This is somthing i just had to post i know it's lame but who knows....im not sure if this makes sense but any imput ideas anything would be appreciated..

The easist thing to do in this situation is just take it as it comes and dont expect anything or you will be disappointed. If you guys are having a "moment" ask her what she wants. Or just by hanging out with her a fair bit, you will probablu be able to work out what she wants as you said reading people is what you do best.

I think the fact that she went really quiet on the day you were leaving was probably because she ddnt really want you to leave.

Anyway good luck - hope this helps a little!

You know it's something of a pleasure reading posts like these only because it reminds me that no matter how deep you get into this "Game" there will ALWAYS be a girl that pulls you out of it - whether that's a good thing or a bad thing is another story.

Dude I have some bad news for you - You're infected. You've got oneitis. You can try and deny it but the fact that you're on this board making this post is proof enough.

The GOOD news is - you know what it can do to you. And you know how destructive it CAN be... if you don't handle it properly. Knowledge is your greatest ally and your sharpest weapon. So what's handling it properly? What does having it "handled" really mean?

It means relax. Seriously. If you're getting nervous about seeing this chic, if you're thinking about her all the time, then you've just GOT to get your mind off of her. Relax. You say reading people is what you do best - I believe you. But do you know WHY that's the case? It's because when YOU are level-headed and when your mind and emotions are clear, they don't clutter up what you're perceiving off of other people. When your own emotions get in the way you start second guessing yourself; you start asking others for advice; you start posting these things on forums like this one. Let me remind you: You do NOT need anyone else's advice or thoughts.

Learn to follow your gut feeling. In all honesty she will make her feelings apparent to you through her words and her body language. Just relax and look for it - don't look too deep it'll be obvious in and of itself.

Just from what I know her going super quiet on you when you're about to leave could be a sign that she doesn't want you to leave. That being said it's up to you to read her facial cues and figure out the truth.

And also FYI the fact that you've slept with this chic at least twice is probably a good fucking indication that she likes you. Don't let your head fuck up your Game.

Stay Grounded.

Q.

Cheers Guys thats what i needed to hear and i knew it. I saw her this weekend and hooked up again...so im definatly getting there.. theres other shit going on but im dealing with it. I was getting so deep in the game it was crazy but so fun.... Because when you find the girl that strikes your attention you know what to do perfectly except when there a little bit special it puts some thrill in it an AFC feeling that i had lost touch with and it's fun. hahah

Ps. infield i've been killing it with her it's just when im alone overthinking.. haha sorted.