I've been talking to this girl (HB9). She's been opening up and giving me pretty good IOI's.When we end the conversation she always says have a great night or have fun something like that. She text me at 2am the other night. She always texts me back. But last night I ask her to do something with me Friday. And she wouldnt say yes she deflected the question. She's in my social circle and I usually see her on fridays and saturdays. She wouldnt say she would hangout just me and her but she said I'll be at the place that I see her on the weekends. I think i need more comfort personaly.

But should I just not call her agian and just show up at the place and talk to her? What do yal think about this situation?

did you just post this twice ?

I meant to edit it not repost mybad

yeah i thought i had replied already
go you go to the place alot at the weekends or are you just going because you know shes going to be there ?

where both just usually there. I dont know if I fucked up or if m still ok tho

i think you should show up w/ another girl if that's possible, but i wouldn't show up and just catch her on another day... i really dont think it matters tho if you go or not(no power lost if you dont, and you could try to set up another date if you do)

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if your both usually in the place then as the guy above said try show up with another girl but if your never there and just show up because she told you thats where she will be i wouldnt advise doing that as she will know that is the only reason your there and that behavior is low value plus kind of creepy

even if you can't come with another girl, if you're usually there, you should go...maybe start chatting up some other girl while there. just continue your routine and seem a little indifferent to her being there (but always receptive to the IOIs you're sure to get while talking to other girls)

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Its not a club or bar we see eachother at its at a friends house we both have in common and we just hangout play poker and drink. The girls personality is bitch and closed but she's opened up alot since I've been texting her. Do you think she's just not rdy 4 for a date 1on1 or have i lost her?

look at it this way if you're still talking to each other back and forth then you still have a chance, its not over till the fat lady sings. The best to do would be to start up convo with other girls or even bring a friend with you thats a girl. Just show her that you're talking to other girls so it doesnt seem like you're chasing her.

1) ignore her ass for a few days, don't reply right a way to her texts
2) make her chase you after its clear she wants you then ask her out
3) FYI 'Have a great weekend' is not an IOI