I am in highschool and have been talking to this girl, we've made out at parties in

the last 2 weeks, numerous times, shes come over and i would have closed the deal

but she was in a rush to get back home for something and i knew i didnt have

enough time. Anyway... she was talking about how shes so serious about us and it

looked like we were ganna get into something serious soon. Then 1 day she

randomly started being very cold and quiet... i ignored it and did not give her the

attention she seeked, after 4 days i told her it was annoying and what was wrong.

she said shes second doubting herself and she always does this and she dosnt

know why she does it but she over thinks everything and dosnt know why but

shes under a lot of stress.

last thing she said to me was i dont know about this right now. and i said about

what right now.. and she said i dont know, good night. ... she always mentions

about how she loves things she cant have and it drives her crazy.

PLEASE HELP ME, I DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS, IF U READ THIS PLEASE

GIMME SOME ADVICE ITS MUCCHHH NEEDED, DONT JUST READ AND LEAVE

well its impossible to psychoanalyze someone that we dont know, but its evident that she has issues. its hard to give an advice like "give her time" or "freeze her out" because its hard to understand whats going on. my gut would tell me that the latter makes more sense, but the question you should ask yourself: if its so complicated this early on, how will it devolp later when both of you face real problems? and why date a girl that is issue-ridden when there are better ones out there? i`m not worried about her and her actions, you should be worrying about your train of thought...

well, she is friends with all my guy friends, lives close, acts exactly like me, and its a

perfect set up for a relationship...

ummm how could i play hard to get with her, since she likes hard to get so much,

what r some good ways to pull that off?

You know what man, I'd blank her out completely for a while. She said she always wants what she can't have, use push and pull, let her think she can have you, but don't just give in.

You gotta show her your no mug.

Game other chicks if possible in the meantime, and when she does, not if, WHEN, go with it... As the above poster said, her being weird already isn't setting a great foundation, so don't worry yourself.

Well in my opinon you have already tried to freeze out and that didn't seem to work, what i belive is that instead of ignoring her try reassuring her instead. If she has problems find out why, it all depends on how deep you want to go. Like the dude above me said if it's like this in the beginning it's not gonna suddenly just fall into place. I once remember being told the real battle starts after you have gotten in a relationship. GL!

Your points are very true. In my opinion, if a girl is giving me agro or problems arise from the start, I wont even go there and waste my time.