| we have two needs, a need for sex and a need for female affection. guys with oneitis want too much female affection, they're happy to hang around with the girl, have a laugh with her, and enjoy every second she is near. they are projecting no sexuality whatsoever, therefore they will never get her.
they're probably not even thinking about having sex with her anymore, they're just loving basking in her affection, hoping one day that after all this time they've spent together, she's going to turn around and scream 'I LOVE YOU'. if only, eh?
you need to become sexual around her, you need to imagine her on her knees blowing you, feels good doesn't it? stop jerking off, hold this sexual energy inside you and when you are around her, you'll give off a sexual vibe. look at her neck, her lips, imagine kissing them.
if you can't do this, and you want to do a 'freeze out', don't just ignore her calls without reason, tell her - 'i need to stay away from you, because when i'm around you, i want to rip your clothes off'. you're a man, don't be ashamed that you want to f'ck a girl.
imagine sex with this girl is food.
you love food, it's amazing! but you've already ate (you jerked off) and your stomach is full (female affection).
i'm hungry (horny), i want some food, and i'll do f'cking anything to get it! she says 'you're not having any food', i tell her '**** you, i want that food'. 'forget the food and let's just be friends'. i'm that hungry (horny), i don't listen to her, i want some food. after a lot of persistence (this is attractive!), i get the food.
not only do i get the food (have sex with her), she's giving me affection. she's hugging me in bed, she's making jokes, we're having a blast just like you and her do, only difference is i'll be blowing a load on her face tonight.
become sexual.
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