Hi,
i found out about community just recently, so i didnt actually finish even one book there is on seduction, yet. But just for fun i went skating to Hyde park today. There she was this pretty 6 with a protective pads and helmet. Quite obvious she has just began with skating, so i opened: Hi, how is it going, any bruises yet? With a smile on my face (i dont know, is that to be considered as neg?)

Well afterwards i ended up skating for 25 minutes with a fitness instructor. It was just for educational purposes so i was kinda to look for IOIs, train how to DHV and try to throw in some negs. I culdnt go kino, as my skating skills are not that perfect yet and hers, well you know...

Then i closed with i gotta go see some friends line, hoping for a number close (would that to be too much to hope for on first actual pick up?), well and then i fucked it up. She told me when can i found her in hyde park and that it would be nice to pop into each other again. NOW in my head: ASK FOR NUMBER, ASK FOR NUMBER. I didnt. Do i know why? No.

I gotta see some friends line was not actually a lie. I went to this pub in Kilburn (i hang around a lot lately) to play pool with my friend. As a bar staff there was this 6 who knows me from my previous visits (talked to her just briefly before) and new girl 7. I opened 7 with: Do you know what is approach anxiety? Then start talking about a tribes and picking wrong girl 10000 years ago, blah blah blah (got that out of mysterys book im currently reading) and it worked. I talked to her every time i came back to get a pint and then go away and it actually kept her curious all that time (cat string theory?)

Anyway i tested couple of negs on her, what was easy as she worked there just to weeks. Something like: Youre doing terrible so far (she forgot to return my credit card after pool) Dont worry you ll do just fine. I hope because i m coming quite often. Again it worked.

What i realized later, 6 i knew from before, was starting to be for some reason jealous of new girl getting attention. So she just walk into us randomly when playing pool with you re doing it wrong line. And later while outside, her and other male bartender joined conversation between me and my friend. I couldnt help myself and i have disqualify the guy (he wore big pink sunglasses) with: Cool glasses man, i m trying to get same for my sister. It worked veeery well.

So to sum up, i didnt get any number today, but mainly through my own fault, so considering this being my first day game i m quite happy anyway.

got some balls doing all that first time infield dude my first time i spoke to like 3 chicks the whole night one i remember pretty well as i tried to open asking for a light she informed me the shop was the other direction so i ignored her and went to ask someone else for one but she reopened and said she was just messing and gave me a light we spoke for a few mins afterwards but that dented my confidence for the rest of the night so stayed away from chicks the rest of the night

so well done bro

you get better with this stuff everday just keep practicing and eventually you notice great results

the best books that help me best where the venusians arts handbook v2 and love systems ultimate phone and text game two great reads

Having balls is relative dude, i must confess that somewhere deep inside i was scared shitless, but at the end of the day this is what this game is about. Overcoming your own fear of rejection. Its all just in your head.

Your story is surprising. Girl reopened you, she didnt have a reason to do it unless she had interest in you. Thats IOI i guess. That should boost your confidence and not put you down. NOTHING should put you down. WHY? Because rejection is no big deal.

Im not a computer geek (this is not being arrogant against geeks, i wish i was one), but best way to explain this is on a computer game. When your character dies, what you do? Press restart and try until you can get through.

Regarding books i ve got quite a few, Mystery Method, the Game, something on body language, hypnosis, nlp and how to talk to anyone.

Getting two girls to compete against each other is pretty good for the first day out. I'm new to the "Game" myself, but have spontaneously used pieces while out with AFC friends (who can ruin everything if they have no clue)...

Even without officially "Sarging" (or Sarging without any planning prior), my number closes have gone up exponentially and I'm far more fluid.

For getting a "number close," I like Mystery's/Strauss' indirect way of "making it seem like it's her idea" by not directly asking for her number. I've had some good luck with, for example in your case I would have said:

"Rollerblading with you was awesome, but I'm wondering if there's a way we could see each other without having wheels on our feet and when we're less sweaty?"

That's probably lame an others can do better I'm sure, but you get the idea. Hopefully she'll ask you if you have a pen or put her number in your cell. You might have to guide her a bit if she's dull though.