Theres this cute girl that I actually like in one of my classes. Im wondering if certain things are IOI's or Im just over analyzing. Whenver i space off in class, and turn and look at her she immediately looks away like she was lookin at me. Sometimes she'll hold eye contact for a few seconds then look away. And when I get up and turn around I catch her lookin at me every now and then.

I talk to her a lot more now and when we sit next to each other and we talk she looks me in the eye and plays with the pages in her book. I make her laugh A LOT and throw negs around. She always playfully calls me an asshole and smiles and laughs when she says it though. I want to get her number to try to get more comfortable with her but last time I tried i bitched out and just put my phone back in my pocket.

So I was wondering are any of those IOI's and how should I number close, just come right out and be like Whats your number, which is what I usually do, or what?

You:"hey do you party at all?"
Her:"Yeah!"
You:"Awesome! well let's take our conversations elsewhere other than the classroom, what's your number?"

From what you describe it sounds like you pretty much are being given a chance.

I could be wrong though, and I'm sure there's better ways to ask for a number in that situation, but usually I just ask without even bs'ing. Or I'll say "damn, I can't wait until this weekend" and she'll ask what's going on? then you tell her whatever interesting plans you have and ask what she's doing, and when she says "oh nothing really" or something of that nature, you say hey, well you should come get her number, and go. lol. I'm assuming this is high school.

Correct, and I actually did ask for her number today. I used a situation she presented with me having to call her or something about it. When she was about to leave she said:

HB:"Text me"
Me: "Oh I dont even have your number!"
*I pull out a pen and a piece of paper*
HB: Okay facebook message me
Me: Im just gonna txt you haha, whats your number
HB: Nah just facebook

And she walks away....

Sorry for the late response.

Being assertive about the text was the wrong part. You don't want to seem pushy. You have to seem calm/nonchalant about it (or at least IMO, to each his own).

I wouldn't fret too much about her asserting the facebook point though. However, I wouldn't message her either. You need to let her know that she isn't a big enough of a deal to you and that she needs to work a little harder for you to message her. I'm not much of a huge routines guy, or all natural either. I like to mix it up a bit and have a little bit of both playing because there is a pattern to most girls, especially ones like her who seem to be trying to be hard to get. My way of doing it is kinda letting the girl hang over you, that she is privileged to be a part of your busy life.

Don't pull out the paper, have a pen, and have her write it on your arm/hand. Remember, delivery and choosing your words smoothly/carefully also works. You can mean the same thing but say it in a few different ways and have a few different reactions to all of them.

I would say "I don't get on facebook too much, I'm a bit too busy for that, texting would be a little more convenient, no?" and then kind of sway her into giving you her number.

By now if you haven't gotten her number, I'd step back for a bit maybe a day or two and then kind of start over. Girls have radars for when guys start to give a little too much attention. As I stated above, make sure that she earns that attention rather than getting it on call.

And instead of saying "oh I don't even have your number!" switch it to something a little more calm like "well, that's a bit hard when I don't have your number in the first place." or something that isn't too in her face about it. And of course a lot of it is pending on her reply to that statement which is where you yourself have to kick it into gear. Not everything will be a set routine. Routines only work for intro's IMO or trying to pull out of a nasty situation that most girls put you in.

Basically - be calm and alpha. Don't think too much about it and just do.

The fact that she walked away was a bad sign, nothing to freak about, but it was a sign that something isn't working correctly. So gather your thoughts a bit and just breathe. Right now, she's doing the thing where you aren't something enough to her for her to outright give you her number. I'd work on building a bit more rapport with her enough to set up a day to hangout or meet up. Hype that up a bit, and then flake that day and reschedule, let her be excited to hang out with YOU. Not YOU excited to hang out with HER. Flip it around towards where you're the one giving her the chance. Don't say stuff about other girls to her in a bragging way, but you have to demonstrate higher value at this point. Play your cards right. Right now it seems like you're jumping to a number close before working the mid-game.

Totally agree with rokr. Backing off and cooling off yourself will help you see more objectively and make her miss your attention.

Another idea is to have her see you in a different situation. Make a situation so that she sees you outside of class. Ask her to a "study session" at a library or cafe. Tell her you hope you see her at that party you know of. Then when you run into her in a more social situation it won't seem so weird if you start escalating or running game. It has a sort of bounce time building theory behind it.

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