I'll give props for approaching the chick, but yeah, asking about a boyfriend? That is a NO NO, not entertaining her friends? NO NO! Now all those girls think you are a creep, and believe me she told them exactly what you said. The idea is to be FUN, and that isn't pulling a girl away from her FUN group of friends to make her feel uncomfortable with random questions.

Next time, walk up to her, and be like, "Hey, the reason I was trying to talk to you and your friends the other day was that I needed some advice about this girl I'm dating, and thought I could get a girl's opinion." BAM, mother fucking opened, easy!

but what if they come up with the question:
Why are you asking me this?
Why dont you ask other girl?


Or something like that,how should ive replied?

anyways,the dude who was supposed to my "wing",abandoned me,so i opened alone.

HER: "Why are you asking me this?"
YOU: "Well I can't go and ask HER friends, they won't be honest with me."

HER: "Why don't you ask other girl?" *Same thing*
YOU: "I saw you and your friends and thought to myself, "They'll probably know what I should do!""

The point is, those questions are shit tests, and you are going to be honest about why you are talking to her. "I thought you could help me out", and if she can't help you out just thank her for her time and walk off and go RIGHT BACK to her group of friends and ask them. If she doesn't want to talk to you, doesn't mean her friends don't want to talk to you. Then you flip the whole conversation into you entertaining the girls more than she could, which in turn makes her jealous and also makes her regret not keeping you to herself.

Guess im gonna approach a new set today,but lets see.
Not so confidant today.

so, how did it go?

honestly, i'm a student myself as well what i would do is wait till she's just rolling with girls alright? Then i'd approach her with "hey (in a normal tone), i need some opinions, i've discussed this with loads of male and female friends (to show that you have women in your life in a very smooth way and that you're no creepy guy, otherwise you wouldn't really have female friends) but i still haven't decided.. You see there's this gorgeous, with such a beautiful smile girl, there's something about her eyes that just, i swear i would be teleported to another world if i stared at her eyes for 1 min (small laugh).. well, we got to know each other, and we seem to go along just fine and i'd like to arrange a date with her or something.. now, i don't wanna make it look too serious and too stressful you know, like dinner, watching a movie together.. so i was thinking about just randomly find a purpose for us to go grab a coffe and get some conversation, so i could get closer to her. What do you girls think about that? Would you go for the complex date or the more casual one?



Alright, after that, feel free to ask the why's, and keep the conversation going, AS SOON as the topic dies, you say thank and to get her names, just do this, "Alright, thanks! So, what are my assistants names?" they'll answer you and stuff, don't forget to straight from the beggining, to emote, and talk as if you feel the words you say and are having an entertaining conversation, but do this in a chilling relaxed way. After getting her names, ask how they know each other, AFTER THAT, what class you from, etc, then eject and say "alright, i'mma go back to my friends"

during the whole talk, don't forget to stand as if you could walk away every second, and maybe insert a time constraint right in the beggining, idk, just make sure u're the one who finishes the conversation.

Also, don't forget to look more at whoever isn't your target, without looking too much, after couple mins in the convo try to tease her due to an opinion of her or something.

If you wanna get the target's number just go like "oh, right, before i leave, gimme all your numbers so, you know (small laugh) since i know you guys seem to have some quality advices and opinions, if i need some assistance, i know who i can contact (H)

get all their numbers. After that, just keep going, i could think more bout it but i'm sleepy and should really go to bed, so yeah, hope you get to read this, as i MYSELF will use this in couple days hahaha


Stay cool.