A girl who cheated on her boyfriend of 2 years with me stopped talking to me a while ago and after a few conversations again she started talking to me a bit again and she said we could hang out as friends yet she says nothing is going to happen between us because she's in love with her boyfriend, now I started to like her again after spending a bit of time with her but dont want to get stuck in the friendzone but dont want her to just keep me around as a fallback if her relationship goes bad. I'm not exactly sure how I should approach this situation. Should I just ignore her and let her be with her boyfriend? I'm familiar with boyfriend destroying but not sure if it will work or apply the same here.

She knows that I like her quite a lot and she seems to have marked me as a "player". Everytime we're together theres lots of kino between both of us (not sure if she's just touchy feely with everyone though) and we make each other laugh a lot. The other day I was out for my birthday and I turned up to her house at 4 in the morning after i'd been out partying and told her to come out for a bit with me. She came out in just her dressing gown and I told her she should come for a drive with me and we spent 2 hours talking to each other and kinda cuddling in on this bench in my garden. I'm really kinda confused by her actions and stuff but don't know what the best move is. Advice appreciated

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If your not man enough to control your actions and not make a move on her, then leave her alone bro. There is no reason to go after a girl who is already in a relationship.

Now I do understand that your already messed around with her before, so I understand the feelings. Which now leaves you with two options. Either you tell her to break it off with the dude if she wants to be with you, or you just completely ignore her until her relationship breaks off on its own.

Trust me man, Karma is a BIATCH... you don't want that shit coming back to you.

best to say "yeah we can be friends, fine" but never actually contact her ever again. if she tries to contact you, just keep up the bare minimum level of politeness. if she wants to meet up again politely decline, make an excuse.

this way, she's out of your life and you've moved on BUT if you run into her again, then there's no bitterness or awkwardness.

She txt me today saying that she agrees we probably shouldnt spend that much time together because of how I feel about her but would we be ok to talk?

I replied
I'd like you to know that I'm not sorry in the slightest about how I feel about you but I'm sorry that the way i feel comes between us being around each other and being better friends but for some reason I just can't seem to get past liking you this much, so since it might be a little complicated for me and uncomfortable and not fair for you maybe spending a lot of time with each other isn't a good idea, talking wont be as big a deal I suppose but no doubt if we were to spend a lot of time together I'd find a couple more things to like about you and it would feel so great but at the same time really shit and if it's your choice to to see me either then I have to respect that.

Some what AFCish but I think it allows minimum contact and lets her know that I like her and she knows that should her relationship finish at some point and we were to meet.

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Lol, some what AFCish? How about complete chump. Minimum contact would be, NOT RESPONDING, she already said she isn't going to fuck you. I know you don't want to be the tampon hearing about boyfriend troubles do you? I know you don't give a shit, I know her problems really don't matter to you, you just want to fuck her. Otherwise why would you even humor the idea of being with a girl who cheats on her man? Get some sense dude, save yourself the heartache and move on!!!!!