Was in Phoenix this weekend to hang out. Met up with this girl I knew from college. Met up with her, got drunk the first night on a pub crawl but still ran perfect game and got her super into me. Went back to her place, fingered her, went down on her, then came time to do the deed and she's like "I gotta get up in the morning..." Then she rolls over and goes to sleep, I try to re-initiate and she says "Let me rest, but don't go." No sex.

Missed her the second night then third night went on a one-on-one dinner date, ran more super game, and walked nonchalantly with her up to her hotel room. Ran the cube on her as she was getting INTO bed (she's like, oh yeah stay make yourself comfortable.. blah blah) then I'm like "Do you want me to kiss you?" "Maybe, but I've got to get up early." Anyway, kissed her, and then some fingering and then she's like "Welp, gotta go to bed...ZZzzz" Still no F-close. WTF?!

One thing to note: She's an Air Force Office/Nurse, and she gets up at 530AM for 12-hour shifts. Also, she mentioned she just ended an LDR.

Anyway, I flew away this morning, so nuts to that. But what did I do wrong if anything?

(I wonder if I should save this number: this is an HB9 trophy I'd eventually like on my wall.)

Wow that sounds like it would be super frustrating!! But like you said she has to wake up at 5:30am so she probably really does need her sleep. I think she prpbably does like you - she wanted you to stay so thats a good sign. If she didnt like you, she would have made you leave.

I dont think you did anything wrong as I jsut mentioned she probably does like you. I can sympathise with her (slightly different I guess cos I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years) but some nights even though I would love to have sex, my mind is just thinking about sleep and waking up so early in the morning, so I have to say no to the bf and go to sleep. I (and I spose probably other girls as well) would prefer to have a longer session of sex when we know we can sleep in in the morning and have some cuddles with you and possibly round 2 in the morning.

The whole just getting out of an LDR may also play a part in her decision. It is always difficult when a relationship breaks up and for a lot of women (myself included), we find it extremely hard to sleep with someone new so quickly after the break up because we arent used to someone new yet and havent quite adjusted to the thoguht that this is someone else not our boyfriend.

It also could be just because she would like you to respect her and doesnt want to sleep with you too soon. As weird as it sounds, maybe she likes you too mcuh to want to sleep with yuo - like she would prefer to have a relationship out of this rather than just a couple of one night stands.

Anyways just my opinion - hope it helps! Good luck.