Ok so I go to a house party in a small town(university), im charming and wheeling two girls for the night girl 1 and girl 2. So i arrive at the party and eventually make small talk with girl 1 , i tease her about her name, her siblings we joke around etc, all is going well.

I consider myself an above average looking guy, most likely a 6-9/10 in girls eyes depending on how I dress/act for the night but it seems to me girls take interest. Throughout my life even though i can be very charming, i have trouble closing and its always been a problem of mine. Especially when i'm drunka and charming, as I begin to sober up i find i loose the charm and i'm looking for a way to fix this....

So girl 1 seems into me and at one point SHE even uses a pick up line that goes something like " a 21 year old man goes for a 12 year old girl , the 12 year old girl then turns 18 6 years later, is this man , now 27, considered to be a pedophile ??
so i answer yes and we laugh etc etc shes into it digging me i can tell etc etc

so girl number 2 im in the same class with , shes really hot and i talk to her about not even noticing her in the class etc etc, being sarcastic about not even noticing her, shes loving this laughing, i'm talking to her friend about this the friend seems to approve and find this humorous, i tease her about her sweater looking like an elementary school sweater being so bright n childish, they're loving this, she's giving me flirtasious eye contact back to me and im thinking in for sure.

so then i leave to talk to friends and come back to girl 2 maybe 15-30 mins later and shes very happy i arrive as a few guys are hitting on her that shes clearly not interested in. she starts rubbing my face and grabbing my waist and pulling me into her etc etc, she clearly seems to want me, i tease her a bit about her "sweater being so bright" etc etc, and I say to her we should go talk more privately ( were out on a pourch) she agrees,

then the big mmistake of the night with girl 2 , she appears to be pretty drunk, im also pretty drunk, so i say " here, ill walk you home back to ( where she lives) ... she immedialely turns her attidutude from flirtatous to a wtf attitude and says " walk me home?? why would you need ot do that ? i dont need to go home..??" and so im left having to awkwardly play it off as a friendly gesture, and it gets real awkward between us as now its hard to play charm game and it just gets real awkward and eventually i half hug/pat her on the shoulder and say see you later (girl 2)

so girl 2 is done, i'm starting to sober up so i approach girl 1 who's upstairs waiting to use the washroom , we make small talk while other guys are hitting on her , and it almost feels as if any sexual tension that had been there earlier in the night was washing away. all other guys leave and its just me and her and i sense like 10x less interest than there was earlier in the night. she begins to walk down the stairs to the rest of party and i say to her in a demanding/playful voice " hey you dropped something you should come back here and find it " , looking back, she obviously was not interested as she began to walk away and clearly i blew it by letting us just become sexual tension but never tryed to pull a move on her.


So in the end , i had two girls so close and let them both get away. i feel like shit now , and would appreciate any feedback on how I should have played them and made a close somehow.

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If you are at a party and your drunk and theres sexual tension like that, you simply should have at the peak of the tension, either pulled her onto the dance floor, if there was no dance floor, just make a move. Stand next to her talking to her SIDE by SIDE i prefer being on the left, whisper in her ear with a more sexual tone, what you matters but base it off of previous conversations, then all id do is turn a little, look her in the eyes say, "dont move", put my left hand around her ear/neck/between hair/end of jaw place and kiss her slowly. It works, this way your not scaring her with the kiss, the dont move" actually can be very effective.