I have been going out lately with some friends. But the thing is even if there are girls with us, well i can´t game them! This due for my friends blocking me out.

Second, they are kinda choads passing the girls for other Amogs. It´s like they are for the mere girl entartainment. And they tell the girls that im a nice person who sits calmly and don´t make a fuss of myself.

I overheard one of the girls saying i was becoming bald. And they were talking about me.

So what now guys...I clearly had some setbacks and might even be better off working alone. But the thing is, i can´t even get girls in my social circle.


Would it be harder to start a game alone out there on the field...?

Dude, you should read up on AMOGing. You need to get in there and challenge your friends. If they say you're a nice person who sits quietly and doesn't make a fuss, then you need to refute that with your words and your body language. Get up and MAKE A FUSS, BE LOUD, and DON"T BE SO DAMNED NICE! You hear girls talking about you, whatever it is, you go over and inject yourself into the conversation. "Talkig about me behind my back, eh? Well, that's not very nice." Turn their comments around and neg them back! Take control!!

But i don´t want too seem like the ADD kid, or the control freak or even obnoxious!

There are so many mines planted out there. Do you think it is a good thing to arm yourself up against your friends? Or is it just better trying to game alone?

I will say that perhaps solo-sarging is the method of choice for you, however, from what you're describing, these personality conflicts that are causing issues within your social circles will be equally detrimental outside of it. If you are quiet, unwilling to cause a stir, how are you going to provide the neccessary excitment to attract a girl of quality?

I say, start with your friends. Don't be ADD, don't be obnoxious, just (at first) observe how they interact with each other, what makes them more alpha than yourself, then imitate. It's not obnoxious to stand up for yourself. It's not obnoxious to be extroverted. Try some new things, try different things, and see what works.

I hope hat helps.

Thanx...Ill try that. But the problem with imitation is that you become someone else. My mission is to find the strenght in me. But if you truly believe it would help then im on my way;)

True, you don't want to become someone else, and I have been having some similar discomforts in becoming more alpha. Thing is, I'm very much the "silent brooding type as well. What I've done is just force myself to try different styles of AMOG, and as you try different things you discover that some things really don't work for you, and some are actually (surprise!) an excellent addition to your personality. I've ended up discovering parts of my personality that I didn't know existed. It could be the same for you. I say, get out there, try it, and if it doesn't work, then you know that you have to find a new route. But there's nothing wrong with trying.