Damn lot of harsh rejections although I think mine is the most worse u have ever heard. Well when I was around 15 there was this teen disco in my neighborhood and all the teens aging 13-18 used to come there.
As I was in the disco all the boys started to grind a girl. So my dumb ass had to follow of course and I started to go behind this very hot girl. And as I go up to her from behind I kinda start dancing on her. At first she was just dancing along. After a minute or so her friend who was in front of her started making this weird gestures.

And of all of a sudden BOOM! she turns around and puts her hand in my face and looks at me in a very arrogant way and walks away as if I was the ugliest dude she had ever met. And right after the rejection all the guys that were there started going OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH!! and the DJ even paused to say *Damn that had to hurt*
At that moment I felt like my confidence and self esteem got killed within a second.

After the rejection I started to sit in the back of the disco and after a while my best friend that I know 15 years comes up to me and says: DUDE DID U KNOW WHO THAT GIRL WAS THAT REJECTED U?. I'M LIKE NO MAN JUST SOME RANDOM ARROGANT BITCH. AND HE'S LIKE: THAT'S MY HALF-SISTER MAN. And right at that moment (the most awkward moment I have ever had) I actually wanted to cry but because I was in this disco I fought against my tears. So for all u guys that got rejected I think this is as bad as it gets although it was 10 years ago I remember it as if it was yesterday.

I have seen some brutal wipeouts with others and had some myself. I was in a very loud bar where to be able to be heard you had to speak very close to the other persons ear. I spoke to a young blonde who just turned her head and ignored me. The look on her face was like a bad smell was around her. I ploughed and she just turned away twice. She was rude but she may not even be a rude person. Who knows what was going through her head. That had nothing to do with me and was all to do with her. My wings just high fived me and I moved on.
I also opened a 3 set last week that was seated in a quiet bar. Opened and two of them seemed receptive but one of them clearly was an obstacle of epic proportions ! She looked like i was a rapist but i still opened. I was right as she then started to shit test and at one point started to say "shew shew" accompanied with "Shewing" hand movements as it i was a pest. I ignored her and spoke to her mates. Who looked some what embarrassed by their friend. The key point is that later in the night I had AA when I was going to speak to some HBs but got through it and opened and these sets went much better. I did exactly the same thing and the reaction was diffierent. If you are polite and friendly then if you get a bad reaction, like the reactions recalled in this thread, then it has nothing to do with you. And as someone famous once said "The more that I practise the luckier I get " LOL

I think once I was flirting with a girl and I made some sexual joke.

She told me that "I wouldn't be doing it with her so I should go jack off" in front of a bunch of my friends.

It was the first and only time I've ever had a girl be that much of a bitch to me so she stunned me and I had nothing clever to say rofl.



Irony of ironies, a few days later we're at a party and she keeps smiling at me, I look at her and laugh while I go talk to another girl.



I have a few comebacks now but it was such a shocker at the time I was busy processing it so I couldn't think of any comebacks.

I never had anything like that happen to me since.

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Is it just me, or some of these rejections only rejections because the rejectee lets the rejection get to him and shake his confidence?

ie:goodtimes, Although you didn't give details on exactly how forward the sexual comment/joke was, it seems like if you had brushed off that chick's comment with something like "don't flatter yourself I wasn't thinking about it" I think the outcome could have at least been neutral, if not in your favor.

Not everything people post is a recent story. This happened to me 3-4 years ago. Way before I ever heard of PU. Not to mention it was the first time any girl had acted like that toward me in my entire life. Most are very friendly and I was usually the one who made it awkward.

O and I should mention I remember that joke was somewhat forward and I thought about saying "Don't flatter yourself" but the joke itself clearly expressed interest in her. So I was stumped.

These days a comment like that wouldn't even phaze me.

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Ok guys I have absolutely no experience but I've been reading these forums.

Is it just me or are some of the "rejections" here actually shit tests and bitch shields designed to test your mettle, that you failed? I think you are supposed to ignore it, turn it around, or show her you don't care somehow. Does anyone agree?

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Me: (Walks up to a 2 set (HB9 x2) at the counter in Dairy Queen - I was super close to them)
HB1: Do you wanna give us some space?
Me: Not really, you smell good...
HB2: Why don't you take your ugly face for a shit and back the fuck up!
Me (to HB2): Now you don't smell good at all... what is that fragrance, hmm smells like ....derelict.
HB1: Laughs.
HB2: You are such a jackass, are you always so annoying?
Me: (turns to HB1 and starts to talk about how I love the ice cream here but it's made from cows kept in battery farms, so sad (BS of course))
HB2: Hey, I'm talking to you, what's your name anyway you f***ing weirdo?
Me (to HB1) is she always this annoying? How do you cope? I've have jumped by now.

And so it went... my worst ever rejection turned around by keeping cool... but inside I was super pissed with the friend!!!!!! F-closed 2 weeks later.

maxloh - I totally agree. I don't have the balls for it (yet) but every mpua says to push through "rejection" unless you get angrily told to "get the fuck out of here". I have a bad habit of ejecting as soon as there is a single awkward pause... working on it though.

There are two that stand out for me, both when approaching 2 sets, both time being screamed at by the fat friend to "fuck off".

Both times this has happened to me the fat friend has stormed off and left me with the hot one, both times it turned out the hot one had a boyfriend and both times I ended up scoring them anyway. The first time nailing a chick on the couch back at my house and the 2nd time making out with the chick in the club WHILE HER BOYFRIEND WAS THERE!

Dunno why this worked so well, I guess I didn't react when told to go away which is obviouly attractive, wish fat friends would scream at me more often.

Oh and guys, everyone who said a girl saying "I have a boyfriend" is a rejection, give me a fucking break!

Man... you make me so fucking depressed...

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OMG just read the 'shoo shoo' post!!!!

That is the funniest post I have ever read on this forum!!!

OMG I can't imagine a girl doing that to me, 'shoo shoo' whilst doing the hand action like you are a street dog at their table begging for food!!! A* for that post - brilliant.

I think rejections are what put most guys off approaching HB's and you will get some when approaching.

If you tend to think of it as a game and have the attitude that you win some / you lose some then that can go along way to dealing with harsh rejections and don't take it personally. Theres probably a host of reasons why; maybe they are fed up with guys hitting on them or they just had an argument with their boyfriend or all 2 mixed with PMT.

I would say this however that you should never be rude or aggressive back to them because this can attract alpha males in the area like flies around shit as they try and prove themselves by impressing her about how caring they are and you are the target in their sights. I find it best to just say "oops, sorry to bother you, enjoy your night" and leave. This can turn the tables on her make her feel like a right shit! Later on she may remember you and think "he's an ok guy" and you never know where it could lead.

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I have very less experience but here are 2 of my worst rejections

On a dance floor acting as wing, I tried to asked a 6 Asian to dance with me so that 8 was free for my friend. It was typical AFC move to be even talking on a dance floor. She just looked at me and entered into a state of shock with her eyes open and arms wide open like saying "How dare you even talk to me?". It was pretty funny to recall that event. She didn't say YES or NO but for 5-6 seconds stayed like that.

Second time just for the sake of approaching any girl, tried talking to a girl sitting in a corner, she didn't even hear me and just turned her face away and her friend made a weird face.

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after a few minute convo i ask go for the #close

me - so give me your number and we will hang out when im not busy.

her - i would not even give you my zipcode!