| As i've been evolving my game, I have come to realise what's recently been lacking. The art of flirting. Those sexually charged one liner's, full of sexual inuendo. I only wish I could find Romeo7's post on mastering the art of sexual tension, this is what's been playing on my mind and I've been experimenting with, whilst on day two's or on first night encounters. From my early days back in high school, I never really paid much attention to what got me laid when I went out to a party. This of course was before I had read the game, and Mystery Method. Nothing really, had opened my eyes, more in the mechanical framework, that is the art of pick-up. I think since before reading the game, my strike rate in terms of picking-up and getting laid, were pretty good. I was happy with my game. But then I was told about "The game".
The game opened my eyes up, to the community, to the opener's, and the theory behind self improvement, by way of social competence. However, what the game then got me to do was, to analyze every aspect of my technique of sarging. Did I say this correctly? Was my posture correct? Have I used enough dhv spikes? Is that an IOI? The constant list continued. Now recently I posted a field report, about close anxiety, and whether there was an aspect to the game that needed to be overcome. I looked at it with the eyes of a prospective PUA, and thought it was my inner game. But then I remembered a post about "mastering Sexual tension", by Romeo7. Now I sat down and thought about this. Until I realised what, Romeo7 was trying to say (well at least I hope so).
The key ingredient to me getting laid, back in the days of high school, was the art of flying a sexually charged comment to the target, and conveying the right message, the "right way". I look at it, as a combination of David D's C&F way of communication, but using Juggler's framework on delivery. Like an SOI, but delivered with the attitude of cocky funny" You're sexy, so let's cut to the chase, are going to hit on me or what?" - That line i used to deliver when I was out in my high school days, with much success, however I need to evolve it, to be less blunt. Now I remember there was an art form to this, to build up sexual tension by way of words. There is however the possiblity of you coming off as sleazy. For example a simple compliment said in the wrong way, could come across sleazy. Placing emphasis, on the wrong words causes this. I only wish I could think of examples of this, but It's my latest sticking point. So stay tuned for future posts, If you understand what I mean. Please eloborate more... help me create a better explanation. I'll be surfing through other posts, to find lines of sexual innuendo to help me elaborate.
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