Ok.. so I go pick her up and go to give her a hug and she purposely turns away from it so I neg her and she’s like “no physical contact.. remember” (in a really flirty tone) it turns out that the damn glider port is 3 blocks away from where she was so of course I neg her on that. As we drive through the dirt lot and park she makes a joke about raping me in the lot and I can’t remember what I said back..

Anyway, we finally hike down to the beach after almost breaking our necks since it was pitch black and a 25 minute hike down the cliff and set the towel down. We chat a little until the moon disappears and then the lightning starts. I decide to teach her some simple meditation with a little NLP type stuff I learned back in high school and used the topic of what she wanted most right now as an anchor, which was my mistake because she snapped out of it at that point with “FAILURE!!!, I’m just kidding, it’s my fault because I couldn’t decide what I want.

I give her a light shove and start initiating kino which she resisted at first (she has a boyfriend) but within about two minutes she was reciprocating the kino quite well. What’s odd though was that when I went to make a move she just about went as well and then at the last second pulled back sharply and said “I still have a boyfriend”.. what the hell did she mean by still?

After walking down to the shore for a few minutes we head back up the cliff and I drive her home. We say goodnight and she says “we’re still on for Saturday right?” (definitely with a worried tone in her voice because she felt bad for pulling back as she admits she's a tease until she decides to give in)

So she pulled away from the kiss-close because she “still” had a boyfriend and then 20 minutes later makes sure I’m not canceling future plans on her… either way, it’s getting quite interesting as she's been seeing me more than her boyfriend.

If anybody has any ideas feel free to pitch in

bro you have it just keep playing it the way you are but from your saying it almost seems like she is in control of the physicality of your relationship together. i mean she definetly seems interested in you and my suggestion is dont mention the BF and just show her a dam exciting time so much so that she forgets her BF (im talking like secret start gazing sites n such) make her night fcking memorable!
Keep up the good work bro shes about to crack! oh and keep up the kino but remember 2 foward 1 back tease her a little too

yeah dude.. i'm doing fine. I finally broke through her kino barrier but she's still playing hard to get on the close aspect. This has been going on for about 3 weeks now so i'm confident to have it sealed fairly soon. This girl is surprisingly somebody i'd date so once i get her she's mine..

The only other girl that's taken me longer to get took 2.5 months before I broke through everything. Then i had to go to college and she freaked out about long distance.. but yeah.. these are top notch girls that make ivy leaguers look retarded