Okay... it's been a while since I started a post. I was usually just responding to everyone's questions, as I had everything figured out. All the rules were in my head and I followed them without hesitation. But now, it seems like I might just need some motivation or justification to do what is right.

Making a very very long story, somewhat short. Last year I fooled around with a HB8 and my close friend fooled around with her friend HB9. After a month, the HB8 called it quits with me and my friend called it quits with HB9. Me and HB9 knew each other then, and we slowly started talking to each other and hanging out with each other while still hooking up with other people. Anyways, this year, we have become really close friends, and talk for 5 mins or so every other day. Now here is where it get's complicated as always. I do like her and a mutual friend has told me that she wants to kiss me. But it's complicated, as we have fooled around with each others close friends and have the risk of it getting really weird. Also, if things don't work out... I might just lose a really good friend.

What should I do? Any help is appreciated as my head just stopped working after I heard that she wanted to kiss me. Somehow it's easier to make decisions when you don't really care about the outcome.

Thanks in advance.

Yes, indeed it is.

You are overthinking things now because you are imagining 200 scenarios with 200 different outcomes.

When you peel all the layers apart, and think about the real thing here, let me ask you this:

What is it you really want?

Do you like this girl enough to have a relationship with? Do you see it work, besides the possible awkwardness (fuck that by the way, people will just take it and live their own lives, everyone is too busy with their own life, always remember that.) Do you even want a relationship right now? If you answer yes to all 3 of these questions, then you should go for it.

Fuck thinking "oh this might ruin our friendship", you will get over that as well, if you even ruin it. If you like this girl, then yes, it is worth the 'risk'.

Seriously, this is what women say a lot when they friendszone guys. Don't be like them, you have a dick.

Good luck bro,

Chillburg

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Thanks Bro! That really helped a lot! I guess everyone needs to get their head straightened out once in a while.

I'm curious about what you've decided care to share it?

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She obviously wants you're cock , fuck her and tell ehr that you dnt want attachments ; You will lose more if she is just ure friend now she can be both.

PS. There's no such things as friends between a guy and a women if that is the case its because one of you choose to have it that way because of either Not escalating or sufficient value or other unknown issues

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Chillburg - I'm just as indecisive as I was when I first posted this. The reason being, I really can't see myself in a relationship with her. I can't see myself kissing her, and I can't see myself being her boyfriend... so I guess I will just be letting this be a friend thingi... Besides, we go out and party, do barbecues and stuff together anyways. I much rather have that. In a way, that is sort of a different kind of relationship. And if she really wants to kiss me, which again is by word of mouth... who knows if it is real or not?

Manda Chuva - Why will I lose more if she just my friend? And I agree with your last statement. But what's wrong with having friends who are girls?

If you're happy being her friend, and want to be her friend, then do that.

If the only reason you can think of to kiss her/fuck her is to put another notch on your belt because 'that's what PUAs do' then personally I wouldn't bother!

Im sorry but women were never made for friendship. Every relationship between the two has an underlying seed of sexual tension. its your responsibility to see whether or not you are willing to explore that tension.