Hi,

I am new in this forum, but I have read some books. So I already post here and not in the beginners section.

I met a girl some days ago in a bar and everything went perfect. I separated her, got her phone number and agreed with her to do some sports. I dated her to go swimming and after swimming I went to my house with her. I had a pizza with her, changed to the living room, had some whine and after some cooky and funny we started some deeper (emotions, etc) chat. I was perfectly on my way. We started some sex talk and then she started off -

She did hard sex talk for three hours. Everytime I tried to change the topic she went back to sextalk. I tried to stay superior, funny, ironic, serious, everything to keep somehow control. She was saying things like that she had tremendous sex with her ex for six hours etc...

After three hours I said she should stop with the theory - we should go to the bedroom. I want to try it.

There she said she wants me as a sports companion.

I told her this is not possible any more and sent her home to stay dominant.

What went wrong. What did I wrong. Or should I not bother - she was a girl that makes men hot and then don't let them finish?

Should I try it again? I want to do the 6 hours with her.

Best Regards

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Witchcraft

I'm trying to wrap my head around some of the things in your post:

First: why did you try to change the subject? If the girl is talking sex, that is a hardcore IOI and should be used to stack forward on heavy kino escalation and to make the covnersation as highly sexualized as possible. You should be using her cues to take control in a sexual way and to highten her arousal and then associate those arousing images with you by telling stories with similar situations and how you dominated in them. Use the sex talk!

And second: Good line about not wanting to deal in theory anymore! But what did she mean about wanting to be a sports companion??? I'm really confused there. What was the context?

Finally: Sending her home might not have been the best idea as far as dominance goes. Just a simple freeze-out to start might have been sufficient. But I'm really wondering how much kino you were putting into this.

Hi,
Thanks for your Answers

The context was that when I dated her I said I will ring her up to do some sports together. We went swimming before I brought her home.

Meanwhile we met again by accident. We again had the sex talk and she said she was addicted to sex and now she is very carefull with selecting a Partner.

I will do some more hardcore kino and make her feel save...
Hope this helps but I am happy for anny comments

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Witchcraft