Hiya all,

I've got a problem. Went out with a girl on a first date yesterday, but didn't manage to close. She does want me. There's no problem there, but we're in the same class...she had a real hard time last year after going out with a boy in the same class and understandbly she scared of doing it again. I'm seeing her again on wednesday not as a date but to discuss the situation. How do I break down her resistance and close? Or sweep her off her feet, or something?

I'm sure that it's a real opportunity, even if I won't be seeing her for long. I jusy need to use the right tactics. Any ideas are welcome.

bro she is giving you the chance to sweep her off her feet by meeting you. It is not about discussing that situation, its about her testing you whether you are truly an alpha male or just another good afc friend. Now how do you do this you ask? well there so much stuff on this site you could use here if you where to search, but I'll give you some broad examples. For attraction phase first things of the top of my head is to display higher values, c/f, and social rep. Basically show her that even if she weren't to do anything with you, it wouldn't even phase you and that you have plenty of other HB waiting in line for a chance to be with you. Routines I would run in the conversation would either be "the cube", or styles xyz questions (sorry IDK the actual name of it); this two routines set you apart since your obviously trying to show her your not like her ex or any other man shes been with (just make sure to ONLY do ONE, not both). Now for the seduction part just stick to giving LOTS of KINO as well as be attentive for any IOI's. And there you go

if it were me, i wouldn't try to pick her up and run premeditated stuff on her, if you really like her that seems a bit low. show her that you care about her, but at the same time show her that being with her wont make or break her. I do this with a mix of cocky funny and just the right amount of kino. also, try to explain to her that the last relationship she had with someone in her class ended badly cuz it was a bad relationship all around, not BECAUSE her bf was in her class. if you convince her of that, your in.

make or break you*

Thanks guys. Well if I fuck up, I'm seeing somebody else later in the day so....