So I'm gaming this girl on myspace just to see how far I can go online. She's like a HB9.5. Anyway I'm doing the little myspace chat thing with her getting to know her better...dropping dhv stories and what not. All of a sudden she goes "You just want to fuck me don't you!" and I said "Whoa whoa whoa settle it down, I know you're hot for me already but we need to get to know each other better first" so then she says "I know you're some pasty white virgin". I don't get it, I never said anything that would make her think like this. The only thing I can think of would be that she's had this happen before where she had a immature kid talk to her and it went wrong. Any ideas on how I can get by this. I mean I am kind of pasty but it's because of my genetics and winter and def not a virgin. Any ideas would be great.

Do you look/are younger than her. One of my good guy friends went up to a Regina Spector concert and asked her to make out with her. Even though he's hellah cute she said no. Suprise, not really. What was suprising was how Regina responded.

"No, because then you'll be wanting to fuck."

The reason I think she said was simple.

-She saw my guy friend as below her.


The truth is I'm not sure if you've negged her enough/been playfull. Lots of times guys will give off this vibe that telling stories can't cure, and in fact often makes it worse. If a guy is mentioning how he's the captain of the football team and makes x grand a year, I don't think he's telling me this just because he likes to brag. Often telling stories can come across as try hard if I'm not in the state of mind where this is someone I need to impress. What can cure it is stepping back, and sending messages that aren't look how awesome I am, but more focused on the girl. Negging her, playing with her, toying with her, so she sees that she has to be worthy of you and that you're not some dog crawling at her feet, and most importantly keeping the conversation free of sexual innendo directed at HER. This doesn't mean stop mentioning sex but things like:

You seem like the girl who gets wild in bed. Or any other direct comment on her physical feature.

Are a bad idea.

I bet you have to deal with guys wanting you all the time, but you know what I got it worse. I'm serious girls just go ape shit over me, I mean their usually hot but they have no personality. That's why I'm glad I'm talking to you, you're giving me a chance to talk.



I think is better. This turns it around on her, and then she can't help but imagine the opposite, what would happen if she didn't give you a chance to talk.


She'll likely challenge that with. Lol you're joking.


And then you have to decide what to say.

Act like a ten, you're the shit not her. Neg her plenty of times making her work up for your affection. More she does that the more she'll be attracted to you. Also, i know how it is when you see a hot chick immediately your AFC in your head kicks in and you can't help acting like a tard tard. It can be controlled all you have to do is just remember she's just a bratty little sister. Be the important one not her.

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I'll try negging her some. Problem with online game that I've noticed is that girls take you way too seriously. I was gaming one girl on myspace a couple of months ago and we got to talking and I negged her and she completely stopped talking to me ever since. I've tried adding in little emotes and stuff like "jk" after but it seems childish.

Dude...this was just a standard shit test. I liked the bit about telling her to slow it down, but I would have said something like, "You're totally right. I'm a virgin. I want to meet a nice girl in church and lose my virginity on my honeymoon. I want to have 2.3 kids, a dog and a cat and live happily ever after in a house on a hillside in the country! Will you marry me?"

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Yeah, total shit test. "We need to get to know each other better" is a classic girl line, that's where you fucked up. It doesn't really communicate masculinity and testosterone, does it? She introduced sex into the equation, so you had a good opportunity to escalate things and build some sexual tension. Personally, I think "Look here girly, you're getting a little ahead of yourself aren't you? How about we meet up FIRST, and then we can see where things go. I'd like to at least know I'm not talking to some bald 40 year old in his mom's basement before I commit to screwing you." covers all the bases.

I think with the Regina Spector (wtf is that?) thing, "Only if you're a decent kisser" would have been a graceful response (best case scenario, she'd be at a loss for a response and he could exit with the upper hand; no makeout, though). Asking to makeout is totally weak, there's no way to salvage that. Just slowly move in for the kiss.

"oh, don't flatter yourself hun"

or, something less strong

"Whoa, most girls buy me a drink before they hit on me like that!"

or something mellow

"I'm not just a piece of meat. I have feelings too, you know!"

I can't take any credit here. This has been collected over the years from various sources. Even if i did make it up, i wouldn't remember that i did.