I'm rusty, but back in it. So this is a technique question - how do you handle girls who give you their number and suggest a meeting place in their first email response to you (i sent an opener, they respond w/# and let's meet for coffee - it's always coffee btw wtf). I joined an online dating site - this aint no myspace shizzz. I guess it's a good problem to have but I don't want to come off beta jumpin on the texting and calling right away.

maybe they are the get-to-the point type. id just play along and see how it goes. agree to meet, but if she NS then dont email her anymore.

word. no nonsense. keepin it simple

They want to meet for coffee? Suggest an alternative. It has been my experience that chicks that want to meet up that fast are generally dominant, frame-controlling types.

Her: Let's meet for coffee!
You: I know a place that has a great band this Saturday...Wear something cute!

Point is, you lead. Not her.

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These girls are type A personalties.
Its very hard to dom a dom, as you must be more of a dom than the other dom to lead a dom. These girls tend to be better off with submissive guys or guys with type B personalities. As two type A's together rarely work out as both want to lead the relationship and its hard to run a boat with two captains in charged.

jurupa,

That's not entirely true. It's a bit of a fallacy to believe that a dominant woman can't be MADE submissive, in the presence of a more dominant personality. The kind of personality that is masculine and well, ALPHA. This is the kind of personality everyone here should be striving to be more like.

While it is true that some women just won't submit and just act like a damn feminine woman for chrissake, I tend to screen those types out quickly. That's the beauty of knowing what your standards are and not settling for anything less. Why the hell would I waste my time on a masculine ball-buster with daddy issues when I can just as easily game a sweet girl that knows how to act like a female? I wouldn't.

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stepped away for a few days and saw new comments. interesting. yeah, this time around I was just gettin my feet wet again. 4 girls reply back with similar lines - sorry it took me so long to respond, here's my number, let's meet for coffee/tea. you guys might be on to something - maybe they are A-types. I mean they are very feminine looking but they're all either nurses or lawyers...that might say something. i'm 30; they are 25-28.

So you are saying that if a more dominate personality shows up it won't make someone with a lesser dominate personalty submissive to the more dominate one? I am not saying the person becomes a completely submissive, but more they lost some of their dominance as a more powerful one showed up. Basically the person goes from type A to type C, where they are a mix dominate and submissive.
lol. Not all guys want a dominate female as a partner. But there are guys that want or go for these girls.