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ok so I'm pretty new to the PUA culture, but I am a fast learner and have already learned a lot. I read David DeAngelo's Double Your Dating and now am halfway through Mystery Method. I've also been watching some of DeAngelo's advanced seminar.
Well anyways there is this 7-8 high school junior who I always thought was cute, but never got to know her cause I was a chump in high school, and now am a freshman in college. Anyways I hit her up on facebook chat along with 3 other girls and pretty much flat out hit on her with some C&F and subtle negs, calling her honey and stuff. I was Just all around being laid back about it, as it was spur of the moment after me and the guys had been drinking, and the laptop was right there. She was responding well and I ended the conversation with "Ok it's a little bit late for me to be letting girls hit on me on facebook, so do you want to give me your cell phone number? [pause] or is your home phone more comfortable? She laughed and immediately gave me her number. I obviously have the older guy thing going for me and she has probably never been treated this way, so I think I have built some attraction. Anyways, where do I take it from here? I've texted her a couple with the same attitude, but I don't want to call her up for a meet up since I have never met her in person.
My band is playing a show next friday and according to the facebook event page she's going. So I was thinking of calling her this friday to see how her vacation is going, then tell her to go to the show, all of course maintaining the cocky and funny attitude. Then work my game on her at the show, before and after blowing her and her friends away with our music. Does this sound like a good plan? I have zero experience with phone game, and I'm not nervous about it, but I still don't want to come off as desperate. I feel like the game applies a little differently when it's a high school girl and you're a popular college guy, at least to some extent.
Also this girl seems to be relationship material, and since I'm not very experienced yet, I feel like it will be more harm than good if I try out a bunch of new techniques. Seems like these advanced techniques aim at getting a girl into bed in as short a time as possible, but I'm more after the "traditional" way of courting.
thanks
Hey mate!
couldnt resist giving my two cents
To be honest, it seems like your off to a good start!
there is a post on txt game in the routines section, go look it up.
For the concert thing, next time you talk to her, ask her what shes up to on that weekend. Shes gna get excited and will think your inviting her out, but just act casual, and tell her your band is playing when she asks what your up to. Dont invite her. If you do, your showing too much interest too early. Let her know its happening, but dont subcommunicate that you WANT her to be there. Open the door but let her walk through.
How to take it from there you ask?
Simple, follow my seduction method
Make sure your cocky funny. Thats rule number one. Show that you have value. Tease her and bust her balls REGULARLY. As for txting and contacting her in general, keep it to a minimum. I have something called the 3 strike rule. For every 3 times she calls/txts/talks to you first, your allowed to contact her first ONCE. Shel feel lucky that you are actually talking to her first, trust me
PLEASE NOTE: the ONE time you do contact her, make sure it isnt boring. Go all out. Bust her balls, flirt, compliment her, take it away, then repeat! You have to make that ONE conversation worthwhile... then cut it short. Shel work hard for the next conversation.
Then for the date, its simple. After youv got her giggling like a child, simply ask "so when are you taking me out?" with a smile. If she is interested, shel most probably say smth along the lines of "uhmmm you should be taking ME out". at this point its game on, and you can continue with some cocky funny comments like "Im very high maintenance, all my gf's have had to wine and dine me to seduce me and frankly right now, Im not that impressed!" With that ONE sentence, you convey value, and confidance.
Anyway all in all, make sure you appear confidant, and dont pretend your trying to be her friend. Go for it, dont beat around the bush. PM me if you need more details
Good luck mate!
TheMack