First of all let me say that I know how I feel about this and if I want her to do it or not. I just want to know what YOU think.

So, imagine this situation. You have a gf, an 8 year relatioinship. She's bi. By the 7th year you get to do a 3some (3 times), but now she's asking to have sex by herself with a girl. She tells you that's something she feels she needs to do because she's bisexual and shell regret it in the future if she doesn't try it at least... and all that.
Would you say "OK baby, do your thing?" or you would feel like she was cheating on you having sex with another person, wheter it was a girl, not a guy?

What you think??

Some options:

"Ok, its fine, but I want to have 5 more threesomes first."

"Ok, but I wanna watch"

"Ok, but I get to go out and fuck a random other girl"

"No. I'm not comfortable." (she might end up doing it behind your back)


Personally, I'd go with the third one. Its only fair. But it depends on what you want. If you don't want her to do this, and you know that she won't like you fucking another girl, then suggest the third one, so that she might back down, although, to her, that is kind of unfair. If you're fine with it, maybe just get more threesomes instead. Iunno. I wish I had this problem

"ohh no. my girlfriend is bi and wants to fuck girls and have threesomes all the time. auhhhhhh!' Lol. I'm not making fun, I'm just jealous. Lol

bad scene if she wants to do it without you....try to get in there

Lucky bastard.

Just keep her around man have more threesomes who cares if she sleeps with women that is fucking awesome.

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YES I'm with casthenova on this one.

Come on guys - girls are flexible sexually, but moving to actually DATING a girl is a whole other lifestyle and mindset change. Just let them do their thing, she's not cheating on you by sleeping with another girl. Especially if she's open about this.

And NO, you fucking a random girl is not the same thing, I thought that would be quite obvious.

Its not cheating? WTF???? haha it is cheating my friend...she wants to do it why? because she thinks it will make her feel good, it a selfish act that she wants to do for her with no thought on how you might feel about it.

I would say that if she gets to fuck another women then you do too...simple as that. Why? :

It is tough being in a relationship! its alot of work! and although you prob think your gf is good looking and you enjoy having sex with her...im sure you have thought about having sex with other good looking women? and what stoped you from doing that? you did! you stoped your self because you know although it would be nice to fuck another women it would ruin the relationship your have with your gf, and you also know that you and your gf share more then just sex.

male or female it doesnt matter. Cheating is cheating and if she couldnt understand ditch her and find another women.

i'm not sure that "cheating is cheating"

cheating involves deception, and here she's asking you and wants to know how you feel about it. You can say no, you can say yes, and hopefully she'll respect your decision, but I don't think she's done anything wrong by asking you.

AND you might get to watch...

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Sweet!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

This is definitely cheating. Shes sexually expressing herself to another person. It doesnt matter if its a man or a woman. She can do it with a fucking dog, but its still cheating.

If you feel that its okay to be cheated on - then let her. At the same time, this should mean that its equally right for YOU to do the same thing back.

Personally, I would tell her: Yes, you can do it if you want. But be comfortable with the fact that I can do the same thing back.

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I agree 100%.

Of course its not the same!! But I'm not fucking a dude just to do something too hahaha! but at the same time she's having sex with a diferent persona... it's a weird situation

Of course she's not cheating if she's telling me about it.
She never had sex with a girl, only with me those 3 times. But I know it's not the same. She doesn't want to date a girl or anything, she just weants the experience.

I think you are wrong when you say she does not care about my feelings: she told me. She could have done it without sayinbg shit.

But if I say "ok, do it", that's not cheating. It's cheating when they lie to you and go behind your back.

I got to fuck her and another girl... I don't need to watch this. This is her experience. Even tho I love the situation of her with another girl, she wants to have her moment with a woman, something she NEVER did before meeting me.

Of course, she's ok with me having sex with a guy, but that's not me, i'm not bisexual.
Having sex with a girl is different... i know that. But it's another person anyways

It all depends on how your relationship is defined. And thats up to you and your gf.

If you think that it is cheating, then it is. If you dont think so, it isnt.

If your gf asks your permission, that means that you have the chance to say no. Just tell her that you want in. If she can have sex with that girl, so can you. It is no different.

It is not important if it is a man or a woman, all that is important is what rules your specific relationship has.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn