Heh! I recently met a hot milf online and had a really good time teasing her before we met via text and email. We eventually met in a trendy city centre bar and things went really well. I sat back and let her work for my attention, had her laughing and generally eating out of my hand. At the end of the evening, she lunged for me, kssing me passionately. I left it a couple of days before texting, and she took it upon herself to arrange the second date, booking tickets to a plush cinema with leather sofas and waitress service etc. She sent me a couple of texts telling me how much she was looking forward to it. The second date went well and again, we ended up making out. When we parted, she was really keen to meet at her place the following weekend. However, she then started taking time to resond to my texts and did not return my call. Needless to say, I haven't seen her again.

The same thing happened about a year ago with a hot younger babe that I met online, so there is a pattern. Anyone else experienced this and got any suggestions as to where I went wrong? All gratefully received! JB

Yea this sort of thing happens to me all the time. I usually handle it one of two ways.

In this situation, she seemed interested but now went cold.

I would personally next her because it isn't worth it for me to compromise my values and chase after a women who isn't reciprocating the interest that I require all girls to reciprocate if they want to sleep with me. I EXPECT the girl to:

1) Know she likes me and understand that I am a high value person.
2) Know my attention is valuable she has to invest to get it.
3) Initiate conversations, dates, questions and put her interest on the table at least equally as much as I am, preferably more.

If a girl doesn't meet these criteria in the first couple of weeks after I meet her, then she is nexted. It isn't animosity, I just don't like feeling like a fool chasing after someone who isn't interested. Your circumstances sound like she lost interest. Rather than try to figure out why, just let it go and find other girls that meet your interest criteria.

Once you write her off in your mind, she will chase you. Then you need to fuck her.

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Thanks man! Just seems odd that a hot woman will invest so much time, effort and money into something (as she did) and then just let it go cold. So alien to a guy's way of thinking but it's good advice that's it's a waste to try and figure out why. Just move on to the next...

I'm guessing the thing I could have have got wrong was making it a little too easy for her after the second date, should still have let her do the lion's share of the work. Anyway, on to the next...

Yea man you have no idea what happened though, thats the point. It "could" have been what you think, or that could just be your insecurity. You will never know.

The reason you let it go is because either you are going to chase and feel like a fool all while her interest level lowers or she will start chasing you. Just walk.

Who cares about her?

There is such a fine line between real feelings and a deep covered up need to validate yourself through success.

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