Me and a friend just started this, read The Game and MM. We've just start winging each other ect. We are going out tonight actually. Anyway, we attended a party of a girlfriend of ours, and it was basically just the to of us and like 9 girls and a gay dude there. So, we started to mingle with the few that where there. The gay guy had a friend that and they kept for themselves pritty much the whole time. now, the girl i guess was an 7,5, but acted like a 10. she came over where we where to get a drink or something and my friend said "hey, did you just put on some Lady Gaga?" She said "do you have a problem with that?" my friend replied with "oh no, lady gaga is cool. You thought I was gonna get mad at you, haha" The wannabe HB10 answered "I don't really care..." and then left to hang out with her gay friend...

No that I think about it, maby that was 2 shit tests right afteer one another. Any thoughts about this and shit tests like that? I'm pritty shure it qualifies as a shit test, or maby she was just an ungameable bitch, haha

it cant be a shit test if your wing walked into it,i mean he asked her a question so wouldnt he be shit testing her? or trying to strike up convo?

but if she'd rather hang out with the gay guy than lock in with the straight guys she was probably uninterested

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sounds like he seemed too interested to me.

his question seemed to ask her perception of him. too early for that IMO, they don't even know each other yet.

hmm, both are perspectives I did'nt think to see it from. I guess you bot could be right. I guess I was just focusing on her giving him a shit test or making it to be a shit test.

That just sounds like a pussy response to me dude.

"...you thought I was gonna be mad?"....YIKES, lol.

I wouldn't have agreed with her, I wouldn't have let some person I've never spoken to before come in and just one-up me. F*ck. That. Shit.

The thing to say there would have been like "Yeah, I have a problem with that, but it's cool 'cause now I know who to blame."

Deliver that with a straight face, don't laugh to try and break the tension, deliver it hard and good and look her right in the eyes.

10% chance she goes "Ehh" and walks away, 90% says she laughs a little to supplicate and break the tension herself and tries to deliver a witty line in response, which chances are, won't be good and you can ball-bust her for lack of wittiness then go into a DHV about how you've always felt that wittiness is truly the best measure of intelligence, and voi to the la, you've got attraction, value and then you start qualifying her, and judging her on her responses.

This shit ain't rocket science...

(I hope none of this came off as offensive, because that wasn't the intention...kind of...maybe...maybe not

Well guys you are not alone here´s my shit night.

Went out, 10-15girls were sitting at the stairs by the entrance of the club, spitting and filling the floor with wrappers and ciggarettebuttons.

As we were entering i said cigarettebuttons and spitt!

She replied -DONT COMPLAIN?

Me.-im not complaining im feeling at home, (my brain -WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU SAYING YOU DORK!).

Feeling nudered i go inside and thinking (brain -na no girls tonight just ignore them and have fun). Never even looked around!

Then later i feel a stare it´s a girl and she just keeps on staring. And i just twist my head slowly and as soon as i make eyecontact, she blows me of smiling and then ignores me and looks happy. She just didn´t like that i ignored her.

Dammit, girls are really hard and just want to fuck with you so they will feel better.

Any advice? How to fuck do i keep my spinalcord attached when i go out.

I know what i would do today in retrospective. But man in those situations you just feel like an complete looser that just gets pushed down by idiots.

Donehell you really fucked up on that first one(hurt to read) but dont feel bad cuz everyone's been there, i would have said something like "so unattractive" just loud enough for her to hear then let her deal with it, but to answer our question: it all starts with you and how you perceive yourself and your reality. if you deep down in your soul believe your the man, women WILL feel it. maybe you should study some inner game tips they'll serve you well, and the other girl who you made eye contact with wanted you to open her but most girls take the ASD(anti-slut defense ) to the next level and if your not careful you can perceive it as you did. next time dont give up so easy & if your certain she's eyeing you say "your stare is burning a hole in my face" (just an example) but yea, INNER GAME FIRST, THE REST FOLLOWS

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I really don´t get where my forcefield is. Yeah, im working on it, but man shit......You know, she wasn´t even hot and i still started crawling, like a reflex i crawled. And then later im at home punching the walls.

MAN SHIT!

a good way to start is to find the kind of person you want to become, write it down if have to, imagine it in your head, how he dresses, his body language, than adopt it and make it your own, wish i had a book to refer at the moment, but its definitely a inner game thing

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Yeah, inner game is at the moment my biggest problem. me and my buddy went out yesterday. third night on a row and in three different clubs. I opened some singlesets, and it went fine. but I use my friend as a time constraint and pull out when I see they're not interested. It's what happens after the approach that scares the bejesus out of me. It's definitly my inner game that needs a boost, and what you said about finding the kind of person you want to be, visualize it and adapt it.

Best answer so far.

Guys got a really good post thanks to Nihro on Inner Game:

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I'm just new to this and I've been following these steps and its greatly helped me I hope you guys have the same luck with it as i did!

Do you have a problem with that?

'No, but i DO have a problem with your hair'

*turn away*

Response one: Why?

Over shoulder: 'You got fluff in it =]' Turn away. Remember the smile.

This makes you look high value, pushing such a high value girl away. Shows disinterest. She may act like a bitch towards you, but trust me she won't know what hit her. You can re- open later when shes cooled off with 'Hey you still have that fluff in your hair.' And kinoing by getting it out. Game as normal.


RESPONSE 2:

She walks off in a mood. So what? Re - open later with 'You still have fluff in your hair. God, as a woman it is your duty to go get it out. Nevermind, come here. I'll make you look pretty again.'

Game as normal.


Just don't let it affect you mate, hold your own counsel and live in your own reality.

Good gaming

xx

i agree when it comes down to it, alot of what u do and how u respond is down to inner game. I guess the best resource would probably be David D's inner game DVD's.

As for the girls outside u could have quite simply and sarcastically replied "Classy" and turn away without even looking back at her for a response.

One thing that really helped me out with my inner game is the idea of being "non reaction seeking" , the way she reacts should not matter to u and i guess it would have given u higher value (than her) in that situation.

As for that other girl who was starring at you - "You cant look/stare at me like that".

But what i like to do when i get blown out by a total bitch is say "uv dropped something by the way" as ur walking away. As she looks down to look for this non-existing object that she didnt drop just give her a tell smile (as if uv got one up over her now). After the its up to u to eject safely or continue the conversation with another light neg if u want.

i agree when it comes down to it, alot of what u do and how u respond is down to inner game. I guess the best resource would probably be David D's inner game DVD's.

As for the girls outside u could have quite simply and sarcastically replied "Classy" and turn away without even looking back at her for a response.

One thing that really helped me out with my inner game is the idea of being "non reaction seeking" , the way she reacts should not matter to u and i guess it would have given u higher value (than her) in that situation.

As for that other girl who was starring at you - "You cant look/stare at me like that".

But what i like to do when i get blown out by a total bitch is say "uv dropped something by the way" as ur walking away. As she looks down to look for this non-existing object that she didnt drop just give her a tell smile (as if uv got one up over her now). After the its up to u to eject safely or continue the conversation with another light neg if u want.