Im pretty good at talking with girls and getting numbers...but its the escalation toward being more than friends is what gets me screwed over... im not sure what to do. what are some good ways to escalate after you #-closed.

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There are a few posts about Kino escalation. In general that is what size=18]I[/size] think is the most important separater in lovers and friends.

You should be able to search Kino and find a billion different things.

EvoJ

One way, that I've recently found effective... is asking whether the HB is ticklish. So you'll get either a yes or a no answer. So they answer yes, they are ticklish:

I say to them, you know that feeling when you get tickled, releases endorphins? These endorphins cause your heart to beat faster, causing you to breathe in harder, then you can't take anymore.

Whilst saying these things, I slow my voice down, and trade eye contact with the HB. Also I would be running the backs of my fingers, along the back of their forearm towards, the back of the elbow.

So let's switch it up, if you get the no answer:

I say: Did you know that you can't tickle yourself? And when someone else does it to you, on a spot hardly anyone touches... you get this tingling sensation, that sends a electric pulse causing your heart rate to increase. Now, I know you're not ticklish - but i'm not going to try to tickle you. What I will try to do, is see if I can lift your heart rate, just by touching you. Then use the same technique again, by running your fingers along their arm.

You then say, I know another spot on your body that will amplify that feeling, but I'm not sure you can handle it... You may either get a green light or a red light to go to the next level if it's red, then stop there, green she's keen. This is where I run the backs of my finger, along the top of the belt line starting just below to bellybutton, then moving outwards, towards the hip, running it slow... and when she breathes heavily, I move in and kiss her, then start dry rooting. Hope that works....

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