My roommate and I have parties just about every weekend... That'll happen when you are 19 and have an apartment. But I'd like to invite some more people to come, since we haven't gotten a noise complaint yet so we might as well push it to the limit. I'd like to have more girls come (more than just my roommate's girlfriend and her friends), but I never seem to know when it is ok to invite to a party. I don't want to seem desperate, but I also want to get some new girls over here by next weekend. I have some girls in mind who I talked briefly to in class, and maybe some girls from work. But being in engineering classes, my choices are limited. I'm only taking one non-engineering class that actual has the opposite sex in it. Kinda sucks, but what can you do...

BRO getting girl by inviting them to your or someone elses party is like THE EASIEST THING TO DO! I'm serious thats how my game started at 1st, I got to the point of being the man to go to when needing something fun to do and I even ended up making a party crew of my own and throwing some of the best parties. ( two lower slide shows on my profile are the 2 best parties i've thrown as of yet www.myspace.com/vote4lt ).

Anyways enough about my self lol. The way I did was simply making flyers, good flyers ok using photoshop or something. By having flyers it shows more that your advertising your shit and makes it look professional, unlike just telling them from word to mouth which most likely they'll just think you want their number. simply go where there are hbs like walkways of schools, coffeshops, malls, clubs, other parties. And simply give them a flyer and start a conversation about how your throwing the best parties this weekend or even the whole year. If you sell it right as well as show social proof and high value then you won't even need to number close them because most you'll see them again at YOUR party. Another good thing is to NOT post directions on the flyer but rather put your phone number and/or myspace/facebook/ etc. that way they HAVE to contact you in order to come. Once again, if you do everything right, they'll be BEGGING to come. Some will even give you their numbers without you asking them. So there you go man, thats how you use parties to pick up girls, but just make sure that if you do the party, you do it good and not half ass like only a 30 pack, a music cd, or something.

I don't like the idea of flyers. The main reason is police. Anyone can act like they are someone else on the phone/internet, and if I give directions to an officer and he shows up at our apartment, we're fucked. We have been lucky with police thus far, our neighbors upstairs got a visit from the police 2 weekends ago (but they have total dick neighbors next to them). The city I live in (Rochester, NY) is cracking down on college/drinking parties hardcore. They have fines, jail time, and eviction notices that scare me. That's my beef with flyers, but that would be very good advice if I lived in a house. House parties around here are for the big parties, apartment are better for friends, or less than 20 people.

thats cool, the just do word of mouth but again don't make it seem like your trying to get them, but rather socializing and promoting your stuff.

Although with the flyers thats why I also said don't post directions so that THEY would contact you. obviously don't give directions to anyone you don't remember giving a flyer to (by this I mean you should have given it to ALL girls and when they call you they should at least tell you how they got your number or where they met you). Trust me where I live they were also cracking down, at one [point me and my friends from the crew were actually on the cops radar - they even had our party line numbers and kept leaving msgs to intimidate us AND the city newspaper ran an article about us making us sound like delinquents lol-. In the end though none of us ever got arrested or paid fines if cops came to the party they would just tell everyone to go home unless people were jumping fences or drinking outside, fight, etc. I used to rent house, bars, and apts to throw them at so even if someone got the most a 90 day notice, they pay that with the money we gave them to rent the place.