Hey all,
I am on my way, of the PUA..
There is one area, I could realy use help/advice with.

That is the following:
Often, I overthink, i think and think, things like..
``What if the girl, think im lame``
``what if its dumb``
``what, how, blabla``

you get, what I mean.

Often, I think, that 90% of the inner voice worries, are just outa place, and we would be better off, to just..
Act, and not think to much, as PUA !

What are your opinions, and any advice, resources available ?

The Paul McKenna book, change your life in 7 days gives some advice on dealing with the negative voice. However, his techniques require some work on your mind and reframing how you hear and think of your inner voice. I would imagine his stuff is not for everyone, but they might have a copy at your local library.

I find that my inner voice sometimes gets thwarted when I push myself out of my comfort zone. It is like my brain gets too busy with the task in hand to give me monkey chatter. However, I am still learning and trying to find a way myself. The 3 second rule applies for everyone I suppose. Mystery, or AFCs dealing with shyness / anxiety.

Make the little fuck sound like mickey mouse

Trial & Error. Like Neil Strauss said, you're not going to win all the girls.
You're going to fail many times before you gain confidence, and that will sooth the voices in your head

-C

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Ahead of my time, like I live my whole life backwards.

Yes that little voice does tend to hold you back maybe it goes back to when you were young and what mother said!!

Without being an overnight psychologist I've found the best way to overcome this problem is by positive thought. Any niggling doubts or worries should be banished from your brain as soon as you select your target and this can easily be achieved if you've learned a few openers/negs/anecdotes etc coupled with your appearance and attitude is the best it can be.

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He who dares wins!

Have you tried a public speaking class?