I was gaming a girl I met and I didn't get to grab her number as she got pulled away by her belligerently drunk friend that I didn't view as a problem in the scenario since I didn't know they were together....but, I gamed her and I sat there and told her I could hook her up with any boy she wanted she just had to point them out to me and then when she said she wasn't interested in any of the boys then said for me to point one out, I told her I excluding her I couldn't find a good looking one either...and then she said, "Was I allowed to include you in my judgement?" with a wicked cute smile....should I facebook message her because we became friends the next morning and I don't have her number? I was thinking of just sending her a message saying, "If someone wanted to know more about you, what should they go about doing?" any ideas if this is bad or good....I'm sure if I see her again I'll close without problem, it's just as of right now....cause I don't want to lose time to another guy that's been working this girl for 8 months, unfortunate sucker he is...but there's always chance for the underdog so I worry...

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Blazer

Definitely facebook her!!! There was definite flirting there and she seems like she wants you... If she gives you her number over facebook or still acts interested then you're in - good luck!

I'll agree with what Girlfriend said. Go ahead and send her a message on Facebook. Your example seemed pretty good, so go with that. Keep us posted!

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Worked out easier than I thought, she sent me an invite to some acapella thing and I asked her if she was apart of it and she just told me she was managing it and we got into a bit of a conversation about that and then we started talking about food and I told heor about how I bake and she told me she makes amazing cookies and I teased her and told her I was pretty sure she was lying and would burn a house down trying to make the dough and she said she'd just have to prove it...and then I didn't get to ask her for her number before she abruptly got off, but I was thinking I would just ask her next time she got on and be like " So, how does one get to bother you outside of facebook if they wanted to...." lets see how it goes...and I'm sorry for not waiting for responses on what to do, I just felt like I knew it was right and took initiative there lol hope to hear some more responses from you guys

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Keep escalating my friend. You sound like you have a really good vibe and energy going with the girl and it's imperative to maintain that.

I've learnt from bitter experience that not seizing the initiative and sometimes not sticking your neck out on the line, has seen it stale out with some really fantastic girls.

He who dares wins like they say

Keep us posted!

You didn't have to wait anyway man. You knew what you were doing. Ash hit it perfectly, don't waste anymore time. I've done the same thing with plenty of girls. Heck, I just lost an opportunity the other day because I waited to long to ask to hang out. So just go for it!!

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