I've been dating this girl for 3 months, and it's sort of dimming out now. I'm wondering how can i spark it, so i don't seem boring and she leaves me.
Please and thanks!

What attracted her to you in the first place?

Be that guy again and she will fall for you all over again.

Something my boyfriend does to keep our relationship fresh (after nearly 2 years together) is different experiences. Recently we just went sky diving together - that may be a bit extreme for you but share some other experiences. I have taken him to my "special" places which feature a beautiful view over the ocean where we just sit and chat. She will feel special that you are letting her into your world.

My boyfriend also still "runs a little game" on me where he acts like it's the first time we are meeting and he starts flirting and tries to pick me up (it always works!).

He also tells me funny stories about his day or people he met/saw and we talk about mutual friends. I also love it when he has a problem with something and he tells me and lets me comfort him and try and come up wiuth a solution together. Women are very maternal creatures and we need this!!

Anyway hope this has helped a little.

And by the way if she has been with you for 3 months, she is probably falling in love with you and I dont think she is getting bored with you... A lot of girls (myself included) realise we are bored of someone after a couple of weeks...

Good luck!!

I'm sorry to say, but you're posting this in the wrong forum. You should post it under relationships..

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We're only here for one more night, scream it like you mean it.

Don't ever even for one second feel or think that this relationship matters in the long run.

Make her fall harder for you than you ever fall for her.

Make her feel like she has to redeem herself for screwing up and therefore chase you.

BE the absolute best possible guy that is out there.

Show her completely different aspects of your personality. Go as far as making SURE you are unpredictable. MAKE SURE she can never figure you out fully and know she has you right where she wants you.

Make her invest more than you.

Make her miss you.

At the end of the day, there is no surefire way to control a relationship though, so that is why the first principle here is the most important.

Who cares if she looses attraction?

Know when to cut her loose and replace her. Know your own value.

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