Ok so i'm talking to this girl. she told me she broke up with her man and i was like cool. So we've been going out for the past 2 weeks and now i just got a text from a friend that told me that she told him that she is still with her bf and that she feels guilty hanging with me cuz of it. Because she just moved from brooklyn to where i live so its a long distance relationship. I want to be with her and my friend told me that she is going to tell me next time we meet. What should i do when sshe tells me that she has a bf? and what should i do if i want to keep pursing her even though she has a long distance bf?

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Ok first of all you have to ask yourself - do you like this girl enough to want to be exclusive with her? If you want to share her, keep seeing her even though she has a boyfriend. If she is seeing you and her boyfriend, she obviously can't decide which one she likes better and wants to be with. Do you really want to be her second best?? I know it's a hard choice if you really want to be with her, but wouldnt you prefer to be with someone who is honest with you and ALWAYS thinking about you? Because she still has a boyfriend, maybe sometimes when she is with you, she might think of him as well. I just think that you deserve someone who gives you their full love and attention because you seem to want to give her all of yours. Anyway, hope this has helped a little. Gopod luck!

Thanks for the reply man!
We talked and she told me indirectly she stil with her man like "me and my boyfriend were talking..." But we haven't even text for the past 5 days so i guess ama just let it be and focus my energy on other things

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yeah dudes am here to learn the pick up game and to get better everyday

If this was me, I would stop being so understanding and tell her that you don't share girls. If she is going to be with him, be with him. If she is going to be with you, then its only you. Then tell her your going to start seeing other people too because its only fair. Don't let her keep playing you like a bitch man, you've gotta man up and tell her how it is.

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I think what matters here is whether or not the original poster is looking for a true girlfriend, or if this is just a girl. If this is just a girl to him then he needs to accept the reality that she is going out with 1 or more other guys and that is just the price to pay for not being monogamous.

If he was thinking "girlfriend" about this girl, then he should just drop her.