Hey guys, first post here. Been reading for the past few months and a relative new PUA. Enjoy all the good stuff you guys have to say on here and looking for some solid input.

The other day I was out with some friends at a bar and playing quarters at a table for about an hour. The was a HB9 I never met and sat down next to her and we chatted a bit. Got some good IOIs with laughing, shes touching my legs, etc. Anyways at 1:30a her boyfriend walks injavascript:emoticon(':shock:') From our interaction, I didnt know she was dating anyone. She never mentioned him, introduced me or gave any signs. In fact, she got up talked to him for a bit, then came back and sat next to me again.

Anyways, the next day she facebook friends me, within 12 hrs of meeting. If that means anything, who knows, I don't care. I think I have a shot with her. Her fb doesnt even say she's in a relationship, but I know she is through friends. My question is how to approach her on facebook. I never got her number that night cuz her bf was there and I guess I didnt have the confidence to pull that off with him there. How should I open up to her given she has a boyfriend?

lol damn if that was my girl....
seriously though, it sounds like you can make a snatch if you wanted to, hit her up on facebook and ask if she wants to hang out at _______, then ask for her number.

this girl is a player period. so a little heads up she might be doin a few things, she could be using u to get her bfs attention or get him jealous, or she is impressed with you cuz she heard a lot of good stuff through her friends about u.
now.. u got her facebook so thats a good start, ask her out, something along the lines of:
guy- have you ever been to (name of place)?
HB- no, maybe, yes
guy- ok great so how about we go there its a rly fun place
HB- ok sure
guy- ok so msg me ur number and i might txt u =]

another thing- that guy wasn't her bf, if it was then he would've dumped her right there or fucked u up on the spot if he had the balls, most likely this guy was jus like a hook-up buddy to her and thats it

hope this helps
good luck =]

Heartless, you make it sound so simple. I guess, cuz it really is, or should be. I'll get there with time. Good info, thanks fellas.

I've done it before...too many times actually, and there are 2 things I've learned:

1. Girls who allow it to happen (you can think and feel it's all you, but at the end of the day, it's them who have to let the interaction take place) will do it again to YOU (regardless of how good you are)...these are the types of girls who badly crave attention and validation all the time and getting it/not getting it from one person just isn't enough for them.

2. Don't do it. Find someone better and more single.

I wouldn't start a convo with her on facebook. Leave that to her.