what i really wanted was a friend with benefits (my favorite) but
i hear what your saying, and i was never the one to have to work too hard to get sex, and seeing how she's un-experienced, it wouldn't be a great sexual experience(i imagine) worth going through weeks or maybe months waiting for her to decide. but at the same time i keep telling my self that she's playing a lil more innocent than she actually is. (remember she has some kind of sexual past)

i think i should get more info on her past to know what im dealing with exactly

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que sara sare, LET THAT SHIT RIDE

I think collecting data is the wrong answer. It's never a good idea to fish around in someone's sexual past; you'll find something you don't like, and it's not going to benefit you anyway. It's good for a virgin to be with someone experienced, who can break her in in a way that won't put her off sex in the future. As long as you set the expectation that you generally have satisfying sexual relationships without getting married, I don't see how she can be disappointed if you seduce her. She'd only feel used if you made it seem like you'd marry her afterward and didn't.

every one gives a good point but ive come to the conclusion that there's no wrong way to go about this and im just gonna go at it like any other female.

thanks for nothing

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que sara sare, LET THAT SHIT RIDE