Well guys, it's been a year and 2 months since I've committed myself to a relationship and now after that long period I'm in another one.

I think I've done well for myself in the past year, I remember before my last relationship I used to be an emotionally unstable AFC who always went running after women. Looking back on it all it was kind of embarrassing. I used to say "I like you" to women on a second meeting or even ASKED for a phone number, man I was such a loser.
Anyway, after that relationship I focused on improving my lifestyle. I discovered Paul Mckenna and his ways of hypnotising people to be more self-confident and improve their locus of control on stress. I then got handed MM - How to get beautiful women in bed and it totally changed my sarging altogether, in a week I was having women running after me because I learned how to improve value and lower theirs through negs.
I guess shortly after I ended up falling in love with the seduction community so I decided to do some more investigating, I found Adam Lyons - Principles Of Attraction which I still use as a base line for gaming today. I think he and mystery are the greatest of them all although MM can change you into a mere social robot which I wasn't too fond off.
A few months ago I researched MM and Adam Lyons method and took ideas to create my own metagame: (>Int + PS + >SP) + (C-R) + Q + SE = A and voila, I have my own natural game structure. And to my surprised the method worked like a charm for me.
Now a week ago I totally fell for this girl I'm out with, even as a seducer I was seduced and it was an amazing feeling. Still is.

I don't care if you guys don't read the above story, just please read this.
This is for the record, some people say that by hopping into a relationship you're slowing your life down and not living it to the full. Well now I know it from both sides and I can honestly say that it's not true. When we become successful in this community we can sometimes become trapped in the seducers paradox.. when we start to see women as a mere form of pleasure and nothing else. I honestly don't see how anyone could be in this community and not respect women when they're clearly the reason why you're here in the first place.

To fully understand the females you must respect them and if you want to get together with "the one" then you've got to get out of the mindset that this is NOT a game, it's something more.. it's one of the primary purposes of your life. Being one of the primary purposes of your life you're going to have to respect that and sarge whilst having it in your mind.
If not you could just end up being emotionally challenged and unable to further commit to the relationship you want to be in at that time.

Anyway, I know this relationship may not last but what I've written in this post is what I've just realised. I just want to say a big thank you to all the people who have helped me out in this community, especially AFCAdam and Mystery. You guys have changed my life in such a way I could never comprehend back then. And to you guys, who have all helped me on this forum. I know I havent been here long but it's always great to know that not only am I the one crying for help I am also the one aiding others as well. Whatever your goals are, I wish you great luck in achieving them. I couldn't have done what I have done now without all of you guys.

Now get your asses out their and fulfil your fucking goals!!

AFCCoffee

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"At the end of the day these are women's lives we're dealing with, not mere entertainment."

"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

I believe it was Style who said something like "The winner isn't the one who gets into the game, it's the one that gets out of it."

Well done.

I just remembered I looked at your reply drunk last night haha, great quote - style is the man
In a way it's true, the winner is not the person who's stuck in a lifetime of sarging, the winner is the person who can sarge until he finds the one to settle down with.

Great quote man

AFCCoffee

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"At the end of the day these are women's lives we're dealing with, not mere entertainment."

"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

I mean I got into the game realizing I wasn't fantastic with women. Sure, I could get girls and was decent and all that, but at the same time I realized the way to find the "one" for me was...to realize what I did and did not want.

By meeting and gaming loads of different girls, not only am I discovering more about myself, but more about what I look for.

Like I said man, congratulations. You may just be getting close to the finish line lol.

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Flawless example of game:

I'm only 17, I started a year ago.. I doubt I'm close to that finishing line yet but thank you man, your words are inspiring

AFCCoffee

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"At the end of the day these are women's lives we're dealing with, not mere entertainment."

"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

Whatever floats your boat, just don't go getting married. Once your married you loose all leverage to walk away from a woman who you ASSUME is the one. She puts on her "the one" behavior all leading up to you getting married. Once you have a financial and contractual obligation, she can withhold sex or show you the real her. This is why women cheat.

Fuck marriage. Fuck "the one".

GENE SIMMONS FOR LIFE

I doubt that applies to every single woman. If you have the ability to keep her attracted to you throughout her life then I think there's less of a chance of that happening.

But as I said in my last post, I am 17 I'm not thinking about marriage

AFCCoffee

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"At the end of the day these are women's lives we're dealing with, not mere entertainment."

"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

True, but I still don't trust women. Although I am young and the women I date are pretty young as well (in their 20's).

But it isn't even a personality thing. It's more of a inherent behavior. I mean think about it.

Women and Men. Men offer certain things to women, sex being one of them, but only if it is good sex.

I am wondering why it seems that every single man I ever read about or talk to is not HAPPY in their marriage. Sex life is bland. Women nag and bitch all the time. They have your balls in a meat grinder. You have no leverage because you can't actually walk away. She could theoretically do whatever she wants because the majority of divorce cases end in the Woman winning, because they lie, and she gets half your assets. That is devastating to any man.

All I am saying is like we should all think long and hard before we actually marry. I don't know, I don't like to generalize people but I am very cautious and very skeptical.

What exactly draws people to marriage in the first place? If you could have sex until you were 60 years old with tons of women and have girlfriends, fuck buddies and just never be tied down, wouldn't you want to do it?

The only argument I feel has legitimate merit is building and raising a family.

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Ahead of my time, like I live my whole life backwards.

Think about what you are saying, you are asserting that all women marry so they can control us then if the occurance arrives, steal our money on a divorce case. This is obviously not true.

AFCCoffee

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"At the end of the day these are women's lives we're dealing with, not mere entertainment."

"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."