How to be that fun guy that everyone wants to hang out with?



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maschi
PostPosted: Sat Mar 27, 2010 3:23 am 
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I wanna be that guy. I tend to smile a lot, and walk like a guy who has confidence and whatnot, but really, when I begin to socialize with other people, I realize how im NOT the fun guy, or generally a guy who you want to hang out with. So yeah, I really need some advice on this.
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I wanna be that guy. I tend to smile a lot, and walk like a guy who has confidence and whatnot, but really, when I begin to socialize with other people, I realize how im NOT the fun guy, or generally a guy who you want to hang out with. So yeah, I really need some advice on this.
Find someone who you really enjoy hanging out with and model yourself on that person. Analyze his behaviour and look at specifics and ask yourself, what makes him fun to be around? Add some of those traits to your persona.
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Making people laugh is a good one. (Just make sure it's not self deprecating humor. Sure, people laugh, but they're laughing for all the wrong reasons)

Also being able to help people with their problems makes them look up to you as an authority figure (Just make sure you're not being the therapist-guy towards girls, no one wants to fuck him, he'll always be 'just' a friend)

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