poet1234

Well she's pretty rude when you are acting nice - when you act nice you switch roles. She just doesn't want you to act nice and when you switch to the female polarity ( freezing out etc more woman like behaviour ) she chases because that's the image she values. Im not saying she is gay(or maybe she likes it idk) im saying she complies to value and when you behave like most woman do she perceives it as value - her mind sees it as value. in other words... behaviour that most woman put up like freeze outs etc complies to her reality thus she perceives it as value.

she's only rude because she/you acts in a certain way , maybe because she doesn't value the relationship. she likes to take lead role but also sees paradoxal value. Maybe she has alot of guy friends or grow up wihout a mom, she does not want you to give your power away by acting nice.

Actually you are still in gaming stage and not really in relationship stage , she is still qualifying you with shit test and so forth. Like i said she want power in relationships but also subconciously dislike people who give their power away - she wants you to act like a PUA with the freeze outs and stuff.
My advice would be to not invest, just act like you don't have a relationship because it's clear she doesn't want to go exclusive yet. You have to get on the same level by thinking the same as her about going exclusive. She probably knows you want to go exclusive because you translated it through subconcious social cues.

Not to be rude but these type of girls often date assholes , they want to be treated like bitches, same like girls who tell you last of their 5 Boyfriends cheated so they hate it - but also are attracted to it. player type of girls ... either you like it or you hate it... reason they act like this is out of social conditioning by parents or previous boyfriends. do you see the lack of self esteem covered by rude behaviour ? she acts like a bitch .. .because she is a bitch to herself ... thus she is a bitch to a certain degree ... don't worry i like bitches as well especially arrogant ones and had long relationships with them, but when shit hits the fan they hit overture bitch mode. There is alot to it but the main mindset would be to not give a shit, don't take her rude behaviour serious - either bite back/pipe it back to her by imitating ( negging) or you freeze out., don't act like you have a serious relationship.

some people are just not what you expect them to are - some are frustrated some are bitches and some are very lose and open. there is no way to change her BUT do realize she puts up a non-authentic personality / role , people who act harsh are only covering up some of their emotional flaws - meaning how she responds to you is not who she really is right now, you are in gaming stage - your relationship is open for a reason.

from a point of view i could say she's getting easy pissed off,i don't have to care
BUT since i am really cold to her every once in a while now,i think she might be annoyed by my "coldness".this situation would be really stupid ,cause i'm not like that anyway.

Ok Lode here you go..

I just got into a LDR not too long ago but I feel like the progress is slowing down, or coming to a halt altogether. A lot of progress was made in the first two months or so (obviously) but now it seems to be slowing down. Maybe its just normal but I would like to see your take on it.

wat up guys, what would yall say if you were in a ltr and your girl gave out
her number to some guy at a club she was at? Still keeps contact with him at times too

like momosimo said .. it depends where you are with your relationship. depends how long you're together - the degree of emotional investment and so forth.
girls just like attention even from chode guys , i got a friend who is chode but still gets alot of numbers. i think you shouldn't judge to quick.