So recently, I met this pretty Somalian girl. We hung out a couple of times, she was very flirtatious. On the third day we ended up kissing in the club. The next day I invited her to my place, but when she came it was going no where fast. She was worried because her parents found out she snuck out... but thats besides the point. While we were in my room, she said there is no way she would ever sleep with me. So I promptly said, I wouldn't let you even if you tried. Now normally I would have freaked out and tried to think what did I do wrong. I got to thinking, to be honest, every woman that I've slept with has told me that very same thing. At some point they always say." i will never have sex with you." Yet we always end up having sex! And its not like im asking them if we are going to have sex, they just voluntarily say it unprovoked. Just an observation I made.

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Man, thats the easiest part of the game to me is once u have the at your house... set the mood get playful, do something innocent like give her a massage, escalate it to kissing, keep it flowing from there short strokes I notice if u try to make things happen women either freak out and say no or after they feel used...

I ended up sleeping with her, just yesterday in fact. I just find it funny that girls always say that to me, I guess they call it token resistance. Doesn't really mean anything.

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It's a defense mechanism. Guys don't really say it because society doesn't impose standards of sexual conduct on us (well unless you're religious). Women say it because later they have to think, "well it wasn't my intent to sleep with this guy; it just happened."

It is denial in the most basic sense, and always a good indicator that we will get laid