hey guys, i need your help on these please.. i started an opener and gone right after 20 mins then number close. on day 2 we ended up very well laughing and i got a lot of IOIs and my problem is on asking her to be my girlfriend. how should i do that?
is it "can you be my girlfriend?" or "i think i should be adopting you as my girlfriend" or "i'll make you as my new girlfriend" or anything else?. i dont know what to say. is there an accurate thing to say? please help me guys. please...
hoping for your replies..
thank you guys..

go subtle.. continue going out with her.. dont make harsh decisions? when the time is right you'll know what to do i guess..

Do not EVER verbalize the status of the relationship! Let HER be the one to say things like, "where is this going?"

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guys, thank you very much for giving me an idea what to do.. now i know... thanks to your help...

STOP! are you trying to make her your girlfriend on he day 2? Dude thats way too fast slow down cowboy.

Don't even worry about it, although I do becuase I have some complex realationships but never do I say lame shit like that before sex. Stuff like that should wait to atleast after the first time.

Peace

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Ever find yourself in the perfect situation ? Like when your alone with her and you feel like something could happen ? You want to escalate so you look over at her and start to talk ... and out of your mouth comes this ...

"I really care about you and I want you to be my girlfriend .."

So she tells you a story about how she doesnt want to have a boyfriend right now and cant we just be friends ?


Ever done that .. I have ! (long time ago)


You might try this ... tell her a story about something exciting that you did recently and just about the time you tell the exciting part ... STOP ... look into her eyes and say "come here you ... " grab her and .. s l o w l y .. kiss her.

.. that should be all it takes to get the juices flowing .. after that just act natural.


MK

Im bacc from a 2 month break from the forum.

Drillbit,you aroused me to answer your post and it's no gonna be pretty!

1st.ly,Johnny & Denzel made major points,but Im going to deliver it differently.

WTF are you thinking Drillbit!!!?

Never ask a girl to be your GF nor to be in a relationship.

Leave the relationship stuff & the emotional stuff to the female.

Let her be the 1st. to say,"I love you,I like you,etc."

A the man,never express those feelings before she does;it'l turn her off!!

That is seduction 101 Drillbit!!!

Let her bring up the relationship topic!!

However,never let the target suck you into an unwanted relationship.

Most LTRs(relation')occur unknowing to the man-it just happens. You wake up 1 day,and you're in a relation' with the girl. Let it happen that way.Go with the flow!

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it depends on how much time you spend together. if you see and text each other everyday she will get the feeling your the relationship mode which will take care of itself....

this is a no-brainer.

comments are correct so far. In my opinion confirming a relationship is not always the best strategy long-term - it means you have responsibilities toward her. There's so many hot women looking for long-term relationships in their 30s, leave it to then to settle down. Don't waste your youth.

I'd go a step further and let girls know you are not looking for a relationship. It means you are free to do what you want - but it also drives them fuckin nutz over you.

I disagree with Kratos. Dude if you like her and WANT a relationship because you want HER. Ask yourself: If there was a hotter girl, beter in every way, would i still want to be with this girl?

If you answer yes then yeah you probably love her and i implore you not to play the hard guy pua. You have to be yourself. I mean your TRUE self. If you are a total AFC then you gotta take the chance man.

Would you want her to be with you because you can do psychologically the right things? This is why i think inner game is fifty times more important than oute game.

Get real good inner game, and the relationship will be fine, but do not just use this girl because your 'too young.'

The outer game comments made by the others are spot on, however as I say gimmicks are just that- showy bits on your personality. Work on your personality and BECOME who you want to be, don't just ACT who you want to be.

Good luck mate,

all my bromance

tom
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yea i gotta agree here.. something ive never thought of doing, the perfect frame to have... thats gold man. cheers!