i dont understand.. i meet a girl online.. we talk for a bit, i offer to meet up, they either say okay and its good. or they say that they cant that day, or they dont do dates online, or they take my number (and wont give me theirs) and say they will call.
then when i ask after a week, lets meet up, they log off. happened to me twice already and that's pissing me off.
what am i doing wrong? im teasing them a bit, im joking around, but i cant build attraction on msn or facebook.. so what to do?

First off, wrong section.

Second, you have the answer in your head. You said it yourself: Sometimes they agree on meeting up and sometimes they completely blow you off. What does that tell you?

Here's my advice: YOU know exactly how you've been gaming all these girls. So think about it... Compare the successful sets with the failed ones. What exactly made you succeed and what made you fail?

A lot of guys in the forum can give you advice - but unless you tell us every single detail of your gaming techniques, the replies and advice are not gonna be accurate.

You can help yourself out (and gain the best results) if you follow my advice.

Good luck

I have to start out with saying what a waste of time online dating is. Not only does it take you 10x longer in every aspect, you also end up with a low quality girl anyway. Stick with real life.

In online dating, going from talking online to meeting up is the biggest step. Just like with anything, you need to escalate to smoothen out that gap. Those girls got a reality shock and flaked.

online dating: Email>instant messaging>phone number>text message>call>meet
real life: meet ( you start out at the last step)

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Listen to this girl online dating is a waste of time... It pretty much all this work for nothing... simply try real life... then give us feedback?